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Gender Stereotype

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Hello society. How have you been? How’s the moil of judging the young peer going on? You have taught us a lot so far. But, today, i want you to stay a little off as we , the breed of this century, are here to parley our sketches.

Gender Stereotype

So, boys I am not here to talk about feminism today. I just heard somewhere that the society has  put the burden of masculinity upon you and taught you not to cry as it makes you a loser.Well, trust me , it does not. It never does. Let it out and breathe a bit because we are not here to judge you. We are here to ameliorate. I refuse to agree with this old fraternity on some of their conjectures. First of all,there is nothing like ‘ crying like a girl’ . There’s only one thing and that is ‘ letting the shit out of you ‘. You want to cry ? We’re here to listen. You want to crib? we’re here to pamper.

Gender Stereotype

Secondly, you are not the only ones who are entitled to hold the door or pull the chair . Thank you for making us feel spesh. But, boys, we can do it for you too. Did it sound funny to you? Yes, maybe because you have always known these gestures to be effectuated by you only. This is where your theory impugn from mine. You will have to square with me on this- you deserve to be heard .

I was like 5 or 6 when i was so sure of this thing that boys are meant to be strong and girls fragile. I never questioned the rule of genders back then. As, for me, boys were those unassasilable life forms girls couldn’t be juxtaposed with. For me, boys were so prerogative and savage  who could do whatever they want. But growing up teaches you a lot. Yes, i grew up to be a Feminist, not the ‘we-deserve-a-separate-coach-for-us’ kind but the ‘speak-up-even-against-women-when-they-are-wrong‘ kind. Yes boys, you heard it right. That is the Gospel of Feminism. We are not surpassing the stature ; we are commensurating it.

Gender Stereotype

My boys, you can be strong AND sensitive . You CAN cook as well. This makes us equal;not the impostor notion of being a GUY or a GIRL. Before everything, we are humans. Our vaginas or your penises don’t make us disparate. The mingy conviction from the society’s nanoscopic idea of gender roles does.You being a male or a female doesn’t define you. Nor does your car or your bank account .YOU define yourself. And we love to see you in your sheer unadulterated form.

Admit guilt when the ball game demands. It won’t make you less of a man but discernible. Be the kind we could reach to when needed . Be the one who could reach us when needed. Be YOU. And let us be what we actually are. We don’t want to mess up with nature.

HOW TRAVELLING THE WORLD CHANGES YOU

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HAPPY TRAVELLING
It Leaves you speechless, then turns you into story teller.

Social media and the Internet make the world feel smaller. You can connect with friends from all over the world through these mediums and feel like you are there in the place where they live. When you travel, you realize the world is BIG, and there is a lot to explore.

There is no greater feeling than having your bags packed and knowing you’re ready to go on your next adventure. There are few things in life that will impact you as much as traveling will. Something happens to us when we board a plane in one country and land in another—it’s almost as if our eyes open again for the first time. The excitement and life experiences that happen when you travel are unlike anything else. It’s hard to capture in words the moment when you see the sunset behind the Colosseum in Rome or when you finally can understand what someone is saying in another language. These moments are trans formative; they take us out of our element and remind us of why we are here.

EFFECTS ON PERSONALITY

HOW TRAVELLING THE WORLD CHANGES YOU
alone tourist in high mountain

When you start traveling for a while, you end up meeting a lot of people. It’s something that you can’t even help. It will just happen naturally, and if you didn’t enjoy it before, it will surely be something that will start to put a smile on your face when you meet a new person and discover what their journey is. You can learn so much from others from different cultures. You just have to open your eyes and let the world take its course. It can be quite intriguing to see how someone the exact same age as you lives their life in comparison to yours. It will also make you become more open to new experiences. The world is your oyster. Go out and learn something new. Make a cool new friend, and see what you can find on your journey. There is so much left to discover.

A NEW PERSPECTIVE ON LIFE

Each culture has its own set of values, and the most direct way to get to know what they are is to observe how people interact (and you really can’t escape that).

This makes you more aware of the culture you came from, and you stop taking things for granted. This can make you appreciate your roots more than you used to, but it can also make you question your culture’s ways and perhaps improve them, at least in your micro environment.

In any case, you’re able to put things into perspective, and that’s something you can’t get if you stay in your hometown your entire life.

DEVELOP CLOSER RELATIONSHIP

From speaking another language to getting around, you have no choice than to be hyper-aware of what’s going on around you.

That concept of mindfulness you’ve been trying to apply to your life – travelling leaves you no other option. You get more perceptive, your brain works stronger and faster, and, as no daydreaming is allowed, you simply have to live in the moment.

THE CHANCES OF FALLING IN LOVE INCREASE! DRAMATICALLY

In this new surrounding you’re completely removed from your reality. No usual worries and responsibilities, and you’re totally allowed to reinvent yourself.

You’re relaxed, so life seems better, so you’re more open and more likely to give a chance to someone you’re hiking, exploring beaches and new cuisines with.

Outside of your comfort zone, falling in love is such a common occurrence.

WHY SHOULD YOU TRAVEL THE WORLD

There are some reasons which helps you to identify that how the life changes with travelling:

Travelling helps you learn who you are.

All the challenges and opportunities travel lays at your feet help you discover who you are in a way that’s only possible on the road.

Travel is literally food for thought.

You’ll be constantly surprised at the flavors the world has to offer.  The way people in other cultures and countries prepare food, and break bread together (not that all cultures even eat bread) will astound you.

Travel gives you a sense of accomplishment

If you’re the kind of person that dreams big, you’re probably one to reach for new challenges. Finishing a trip gives you the satisfaction that you were able make a goal to travel and  accomplish what you set out to do–see the world.

Travel is education

Seeing the world provides an education that’s absolutely impossible get in school. Travel teaches you economy, politics, history, geography, and sociology in an intense, hands-on way no class will.

Travel helps you move forward

If you’re between jobs, schools, kids, or relationships, around the world travel can be a perfect way to move from one of these life stages into your next great adventure.

Through the modern era is very much famous for science and technology, still Travelling is a vital source of information exchange. When some people are going to other place, they are exchanging their feelings and information. Thus, a mutual co-operation is created by travelling.

The Brushstroker: Varma

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The Brushstroker: Varma

Lectures in high school are always boring aren’t it ? Things are  indispensable to be that way ! While attending the eleventh grade mass media studies class , the fact that we got to Know about the legendary , creator, an artist named Ravi Varma  was, a splendid artist , who’s not only famous for his lustrous , realistic work on human figures as well as his brush strokes played a very important role in creating the figures​ of gods and goddesses look alike as human beings.

The Brushstroker: Varma

Ravi Varma or Raja Varma took birth in Kilimanoor ,Travancore, on 29th april in 1848 during the colonial period. While studying mass media , painting being the 6th subject also ally with his veristic art works. Pioneers of these periods​ were greatly skilled in arts.

The Brushstroker: Varma

Gentle folks had interest and respect and of course, time for cultural programs​ and arts which practically lacks in this 21st century, where people are more commonsensical , hard-boiled  and are unimpassioned for art and culture intern their emotions have been yock inside  their phones.

 

History of brush strokes : ( source : Wikipedia )

The Brushstroker: Varma

 

Ravi Varma is particularly noted for his paintings depicting episodes from the story of Dushyanta and Shakuntala, and Nala and Damayanti, from the Mahabharata. Ravi Varma’s representation of mythological characters has become a part of the Indian imagination of the epics. He is often criticized for being too showy and sentimental in his style but his work remains very popular in India. Many of his fabulous paintings are housed at Laxmi Vilas Palace, Vadodara.

The Brushstroker: Varma

Varma was patronised by Ayilyam Thirunal, the next Maharajah of Travancore and began formal training thereafter.[7] He learned the basics of painting in Madurai. Later, he was trained in water painting by Rama Swami Naidu and in oil painting by Dutch portraitist Theodor Jenson.[citation needed]

The Brushstroker: VarmaThe studio used by Varma during his stay at the Laxmi Vilas Palace,
The British administrator Edgar Thurston was significant in promoting the careers of Varma and his brother. Varma received widespread acclaim after he won an award for an exhibition of his paintings at Vienna in 1873. Varma’s paintings were also sent to the World’s Columbian Exposition held in Chicago in 1893 and he was awarded three gold medals.[9] He travelled throughout India in search of subjects. He often modelled Hindu Goddesses on South Indian women, whom he considered beautiful.

The Brushstroker: Varma

Veneration :

The Brushstroker: Varma

In 1904, Viceroy Lord Curzon, on behalf of the British King Emperor, bestowed upon Varma the Kaisar-i-Hind Gold Medal. A college dedicated to fine arts was also constituted in his honour at Mavelikara, Kerala. Raja Ravi Varma High School at Kilimanoor was named after him and there are many cultural organizations throughout India bearing his name. In 2013, the crater Varma on Mercury was named in his honor. Considering his vast contribution to Indian art, the Government of Kerala has instituted an award called “Raja Ravi Varma Puraskaram”, which is awarded every year to people who show excellence in the field of art and culture.

The Brushstroker: Varma

The major brush strokes :

The Brushstroker: Varma

 

  • Village Belle
  • Lady Lost in ThoughtThe Brushstroker: Varma
  • Damayanti Talking to a Swan
    The Orchestra
  • Arjuna and Subhadra
  • The heartbroken
    The Brushstroker: Varma
  • Swarbat Player
  • Shakuntala
  • Lord Krishna as AmbassadorThe Brushstroker: Varma
  • Jatayu, a bird devotee of Lord
  • Rama is mauled by Ravana
    The Brushstroker: Varma
  • Victory of Indrajit
  • The gypsies
  • A Lady Playing Swarbat
    The Brushstroker: Varma
  • Lady Giving Alms at the Temple
  • Lord Rama Conquers Varuna
    The Brushstroker: Varma
  • Gheevarghese Mar Gregorios of
  • Parumala
    The Brushstroker: Varma
  • Nair Woman
  • Romancing Couple
    The Brushstroker: Varma

 

3D painting of The Mysore king in a horse[available at the Mysore palace]

And most importantly the 2014 ‘Raang Rasiya’ film, starring Randeep Hooda and Nandana Sen based on RAJA RAVI VARMA’S CREATION OF COLOURS.

Raang Rasiya : 

 

The Brushstroker: Varma

LAUGHTER: BETTER THAN A MASSAGE

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What common human activity relaxes tense muscles, reduces blood pressure and heart rate,  exercises the muscles of the face,  diaphragm and abdomen,  boosts the immune system,  and causes the body to release pain-fighting hormones?

The answer: laughter.  Sound impressive?

And those just the physical benefits. Laughter also helps you get some emotional distance from a distressing situation and see the humor in it.

  • Researchers have shown that laughter increases relaxation.  Muscle tension remains low for up to 45 minutes after a session of vigorous laughter. Real belly laughter Can relax the muscles more than a vigorous massage.
  • If you haven’t exercised your humor muscles lately you may benefit from these tips on getting them in shape:
  • Find things that make you laugh and do them.  See a funny movie,  read a funny book memorize a joke and tell it to friends.
  • The next time you’re in a  distressing situation, mentally put yourself in the shoes of your favorite comedian. Humor depends on being able to see the humor where others see only aggravation.  It’s the difference between tragedy and comedy.
  • Allow a feeling of playfulness to creep into your life.  Let your mind be open to silly and uncensored thoughts.  What if everyone came to work wearing Groucho Marx glasses and a fake moustache?
  • Amuse yourself by indulging in humorous exaggeration.  Stuck in traffic?  Think of cobwebs forming your car and the next, continental drift passing you by, snails overtaking you on the shoulder.
  • Share cartoons, jokes and other funny material at work. Put cartoons up on the bulletin board.  By helping others reduce stress you make your own job easier. And people will just be more relaxed around you if they know you have a sense of humor.
  • Get in the habit of laughing at life’s contradictions.  You can bet your Groucho Marx glasses you’ll never run out of material.
  • Finally,  practice laughing are yourself.  You just can’t help becoming more accepting of your own shortcomings, and that’s sure-fire stress-buster.

 Keep it light

People will feel safe and comfortable around you if they know you can laugh-but not if you laugh at them.  Humor that is cruel or sarcastic breeds a negative attitude in both the humorist and the audience.  Stay on the light side.  Life is funny enough without resorting  to vicious humor

Laughter’s Effects on the Body

In the last few decades, researchers have studied laughter’s effects on the body and turned up some potentially interesting information on how it affects us:

Blood flow. Researchers at the University of Maryland studied the effects on blood vessels when people were shown either comedies or dramas. After the screening, the blood vessels of the group who watched the comedy behaved normally — expanding and contracting easily. But the blood vessels in people who watched the drama tended to tense up, restricting blood flow.

Immune response. Increased stress is associated with decreased immune system response, says Pro vine. Some studies have shown that the ability to use humor may raise the level of infection-fighting antibodies in the body and boost the levels of immune cells, as well.

Blood sugar levels. One study of 19 people with diabetes looked at the effects of laughter on blood sugar levels. After eating, the group attended a tedious lecture. On the next day, the group ate the same meal and then watched a comedy. After the comedy, the group had lower blood sugar levels than they did after the lecture.

Relaxation and sleep. The focus on the benefits of laughter really began with Normal Cousin’s memoir, Anatomy of an Illness. Cousins, who was diagnosed with ankylosing spondylitis, a painful spine condition, found that a diet of comedies, like Marx Brothers films and episodes of Candid Camera, helped him feel better. He said that ten minutes of laughter allowed him two hours of pain-free sleep.

Rx for laughter

The next time you’re looking for an easy way to relieve stress in your life, try a dose of laughter. You can get it without a prescription.

 

6 Amazing Health and Beauty benefits of Eggs

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Eggs are among the few foods that fall under the category of “superfoods”, since they are one of the most complete and resourceful foods available. They are loaded with nutrients and proteins and are as delicious as they are healthy. They are an abundant source of Vitamins and Minerals, that are crucial constituents of a healthy diet and in most parts of the world, eggs are conveniently obtainable as an inexpensive source of food.

Below we have curated 6 amazing health and beauty benefits of this wholesome and delicious superfood:

1. Eggs are rich in quality protein

Proteins are the building blocks of the human body. They make tissues and molecules and do most of the work in cells that are required for both structural and functional growth. Eggs are a very rich source of high quality protein. Getting enough of this macronutrient is very important for building bones and muscle mass, as well as maintaining your overall health. An average sized egg contains about 6-7 grams of high quality protein.

6 Amazing Health and Beauty benefits of Eggs
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  1. 2. Eggs for hair

    Eggs are an abundant source of proteins, vitamins and antioxidants. These supplements are exceptionally valuable for your hair. A good hair mask made with a combination of eggs and olive oil can do miracles for your hair. It nourishes your hair, reduces hair fall and if used about once a week for a month it can add lustre and moisture to your hair and strengthen your strands from the roots.
    6 Amazing Health and Beauty benefits of Eggs
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    3. Eggs for skin

    Egg whites are rich in protein and albumin that have skin toning properties and help in achieving wrinkle free skin. While the egg yolks contain fatty acids which can supply moisture to the skin. They are a boon for oily skin since they help tighten and shrink the large pores and can be useful in fighting off acne.
    6 Amazing Health and Beauty benefits of Eggs
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    4. Eggs for eyes

    Just as our physical strength decreases with age, our eyes also deteriorate in their performance. A diet rich in vitamins and minerals protects vision for the long run. Two of the most important nutrients for eye health are- Lutein and Zeaxanthin, they are powerful antioxidants that tend to build up the retina of the eye. Egg yolks actually contain large amounts of both these antioxidants. Eggs also have plentiful Vitamin A, as deficiency of Vitamin A is the most common cause of blindness in the world.         
    6 Amazing Health and Beauty benefits of Eggs
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     5. Eggs for weight loss                                            

    Eggs are diet friendly foods since they are nutrient dense and a rich source of proteins. They are composed of healthy fats and can make you feel full for a longer time with a very low amount of calorie intake. Plus they are delicious in taste and can be used in a number of recipes and in a number of ways.

    6 Amazing Health and Beauty benefits of Eggs
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    6. Eggs give you energy

    Eggs are a primary source of Vitamin B2, which helps convert the foods you eat into energy. The proteins in eggs act as a constant source of energy, thus by increasing your consumption, you make the process more productive, thereby giving you more energy. That is why eggs are an ideal choice of food before a workout or as breakfast to get you through the day.                          

    6 Amazing Health and Beauty benefits of Eggs
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5 Highest paying Government jobs of India

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There is a reason why people are so crazy about “The Sarkari naukari”. Government jobs come with several perks like paid leaves, long maternity leaves, Allowances, pension etc. etc. The list goes on. The Government of India takes good care of its employees. Moreover the work pressure is manageable in Govt. Jobs. You get lots of holidays and have plenty of time after your job to spend with your family. The most lucrative of all the benefits is the Job security. No matter how bad the market gets, you’re going to have a job at all times till you retire. Government jobs provided a good salary along with other perks since all the time But the Seventh Pay Commission has added to the benefits  in terms of salary.

As they say, money is the best motivator so why not use it in our favor?

Just to add to your motivation to get a government job, I have compiled a list of highest paying Government jobs of India.

  • The Civil Services

IAS, IPS, IRS, IFS, all are included in the civil services. All these services have very high power and prestige quotient. Apart from these all the civil servants are paid a handsome amount. A cadre of IAS officers who are appointed as the Cabinet Secretary draws Rs.90,000 fixed as basic pay which is fixed, means he is not entitled to  any increments.

IAS Officer Salary: Basic: 56100

IAS Officer DA (6%): 3366

Transport Allowance (Basic): 7200

DA on Transport allowance: 432

HRA: 13464

Total salary  Rs 80,562.

  • Public Sector Units

5 Highest paying Government jobs of IndiaPSU’s are government-owned corporations or state-owned enterprises created by the Government of India to undertake commercial activities on behalf of government. Being government owned organization working in PSU’s has benefits like, Job security

Allowances & Benefits, Govt. Holidays, Flexible Timings and Pension Schemes.

PSU Name Salary offered by PSU
Coal India Limited (CIL) Rs. 16,400 – 40,500 at the initial Basic of Rs.16,400/- during the first year (Training period)
Indian Oil Corporation (IOCL) Rs. 24900-50500 for the posts of Officers/ Engineers and

Rs. 20600-46500 for the posts of Assistant Officer/ Assistant Engineer

National Thermal Power Corporation (NTPC) Rs. 24900-50500 at the basic pay of Rs. 24900/- during one-year training
Oil and Natural Gas Corporation Ltd. (ONGC) Rs. 24,900 – 50,500/- with an increment of 3% per year
Bharat Petroleum Corporation Limited (BPCL) Total CTC at the minimum of the scale for Grade 7 will be approximately Rs.7 Lakhs
Bharat Heavy Electricals Limited (BHEL) Scale of pay of Rs. 20,600 – 46,500 at the initial Basic of Rs.20,600/- during the first year (Training period)
  • Defense Jobs

They do have their tests and selection process, which as you would expect are pretty tough, since it is a matter of national security. However if you are through; it is indeed among the high paying government jobs. Good payment, official residence, medical facilities are some of the perks provided by this job. Herd is the salary of various posts in Indian army.

Post Pay Scale Grade Pay Army Service Pay Total Cash (Salary)
Sepoy 5200-20200 1800 2000 25,000
Lance Naik 5200-20200 2000 2000 30,000
Naik 5200-20200 2400 2000 35,000
Havaldar 5200-20200 2800 2000 40,000
Naib Subedar 9300-34800 4200 2000 45,000
Subedar 9300-34800 4600 2000 50,000
Lieutenant 15600-39100 5400 6000 68,000
Captain 15600-39100 6100 6000 75,000
Major 15600-39100 6600 6000 1,00,000
Lieutenant Colonel 37400-67000 8000 6000 1,12,000
Colonel 37400-67000 8700 6000 1,30,000
  • Bank Jobs- Probationary Officer

Banks are among the highest paying Government Jobs in India and if you are in a higher post in some large PSU like a Bank of India or State Bank of India, then it’s even better. The job of a Bank probationary officer is also one of the most sought after government jobs in India. Perks associated with the job include medical aid and traveling allowance.

SBI PO Basic Pay Rs. 27620/- (4 Increments also applicable)
Dearness Allowance (DA) 46.9% of the Basic Pay (Revised Quarterly)
(CCA) This varies with the place of posting at 4% or 3%.
HRA 9%, 8% or 7% (Depends on the place of posting)
Furniture Allowance Rs. 120000/-
Medical Insurance 100% medical coverage for SBI employees and 75% for their family members
Travelling Allowance For official travels, reimbursement of AC 2-tier fare is provided
Petrol Approx. Rs. 1100-1250
SBI PO Gross Salary with HRA Total Compensation:  ₹7.55 lakhs and maximum of ₹12.93 lakhs depending on the place of posting and other factors.
  • Teaching- University Lecturers

The average salary for a Professor, Postsecondary/Higher Education is Rs 955,627 per year.  Skill in teaching is associated with the payment for this job. With experience gained, this job may give you a huge monthly salary and reputation. However, the candidate must have exceptional professional and academic qualifications to apply for the post. Government teaching jobs are Highly demanded jobs and therefore, the aspiring candidate must have a strong work profile like a Ph.D degree to be able to consider getting the job.

However, the candidate must have exceptional professional and academic qualifications to apply for the post. Government teaching jobs are Highly demanded jobs and therefore, the aspiring candidate must have a strong work profile like a Ph.D degree to be able to consider getting the job.

These were the top 5 best paying Government jobs in India. Several other jobs like the State PSCs, Railway Engineers, and Scientists etc. also pay nice but they lag behind in terms of work load and other perks. So they were not included here.

So, if you are lacking some motivation, see these salary scales and get back to studies.

Amalgamation

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Amalgamation

Being the one out of the crowd is never too easy , neither socially nor psychologically. Being the one to experience, the fact that accumulates and give rise to gales inside you , actually give rise to the person “who you really are.” In a nutshell we can say since innately​ everyone has got their own way of life , let us maintain it and rather not poke nose into somebody’s life choices.

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  • Amalgamation

Stereotype breakers are consistently held as vandals, instead of being applaud at. Manifestations of the society not only made bilge but dilapidated humanism. But stereotypes are the most authentic heritage , yet stereotypes aren’t the one who shares MEMS but the one who crystallize words into actions . Invariably genocidal society dominating is an intrinsic.

Amalgamation

 

The thought of being a tomboy/LGBTQ Transwoman /man /social activist seems a vulnerable destruction incidence. Ambiguous jurisdiction cannot chain the self realizations​ of being who you’re. Sharing the deliberate but controlled situations significantly disrupts the accorded mainstreams , monotonous feelings of the crowd.

 Amalgamation

Being in that ‘billed’ , ‘none the less’ , ‘as expected’,‘reluctant’, ‘liable’ rumours , back-bitching , conceptualising talks was and is never too easy in school life. Teachers used to find her stubborn, helpful but spilled over talked about her personal life more than that of what was she good at . The vulnerability, harshness , shattered her and her critical self-confidence. Other students in school thought her life was like a leap frog for ‘Eminence’ but only she knew the results of churning out as famous. Junior students found her identity mystique , glaring, obsessing but she knew , soon these mire would be unrecoverable.

Amalgamation
She didn’t had the ultimate support of her family but she had her priorities, her handful of friends, siblings,and her girlfriend. Her medicor lifestyle bored her , cause it was like a vanilla ice cream, nothing new in it.  She was growing up, her feelings, her structure of body was revolutionary​, complexities of her inner conflicts almost ruined her each and everyday. Thoroughgoing of her meticulous behavior and feelings completely gave a new shape to her emerging personality. When she moved down the corridors she could find immaturity among the sixth-seventh grades who kept following her , until she looked​ back and roared at them. “It’s not easy to be a manly girl in a girls school” , she have had many girlfriends​ but the one she’s now with is totally the love of her life, she’s the one the tomboy ever wanted, “ being in love with a senior is hard, cause next year she’s gonna pass out high school and get into some college and make new priorities ”, that’s the part she fears about, that’s her ‘ amalgamation ’ .

Amalgamation

Amalgamation

She fear of losing her urged her to despite her own identity. Honestly, the evolving despised behavior of her indeed turned out to be dispute. Her inner self prescribed her to tolerant, patience but she began to lack all the qualities she possessed. To count in the fact to more worse was her phone number got viral . She’s been facing trouble the day after another, or maybe after an alternative month. The wreckers causing troubles aren’t being punished on school when complained instead the culmination was ‘ tomboy fault and suspension ’. Some teachers were such sadist, they could get anyone into trouble to seek pleasure. They said menacingly “ don’t you dare work smart ” those harsh words did mauling tortured the mindset , such obsolete manner ,of now which she’s used to,subtler.

Amalgamation

By then in middle school and high school her parents were called quite frequently, who were suspiciously notified of the purgatory behavior of their child, and instead of understanding the problems they took up torturing techniques. Her parents were though good and supporting yet were hypocritical, which fades the adjectives mentioned before. She was a ‘ Phantasmagoric person ’ because what she thought of happening in real were ever possible in a million years, she imagined frantically, talked to herself​ , reacted to her situations she imagined and most importantly her encounters with her beloved as she thought she’s a ‘ MAN ’.

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Importance Of Personality Development

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IMPORTANCE OF PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT

Personality development is defined as a process of developing and enhancing one’s personality. Personality development helps an individual to gain confidence and high self esteem. Actually Personality means- a integrated organization of physical, emotional, intellectual, social, psychological and spiritual characteristics of an individual. And development means- an ongoing process. Personality development also is said to have a positive impact on one’s communication skills and the way they sees the world. Individuals tend to develop a positive attitude as a result of personality development.

So now you all think that how actually the Personality is developed. So for this let us discuss various determinants of the personality development.

Determinants of Personality

Following are the factors which help in shaping one’s personality:

  1. Heredity – Heredity refers to factors that are determined once an individual is born. An individual’s physique, attractiveness, body type, complexion, body weight depend on his/her parents biological makeup.
  2. Environment – The environment to which an individual is subjected to during his growing years plays an important role in determining his/her personality. The varied cultures in which we are brought up and our family backgrounds have a crucial role in shaping our personalities.
  3. Situation – An individual’s personality also changes with current circumstances and situations. An individual would behave in a different way when he has enough savings with him and his behavior would automatically change when he is bankrupt.

Things To Enhance Your Personality

  • Don’t compare your life.
  • Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control, Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
  • Dream more while you are awake.
  • Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip

9 Personality Development Tips

  1. Be as positive as a proton
    A proton can never lose its positivity as so can’t you! It just gets covered by stress which saps your energy. Staying positive will help you overcome the toughest of challenges while attracting more positivity and opportunities.
  2. Be more passionate
    The best way to get any work done is by being passionate about it. Let your passion drive your efforts and you’ll be able to achieve excellence in life.
  3. Handle your emotions…with care
    If life is a roller-coaster ride, then make sure you are enjoying it to the max. Don’t let your emotions take control of situations but learn to get a grip on them. This will help you stay centered and calm during challenging situations.
  4. Share a little, care a little
    Learn to be more compassionate! The next time you or somebody else commits an error, let them off the hook without holding a grudge. Broaden your perspective that we all are evolving continuously and that no one’s perfect. This outlook will help you accept yourself and others better.
  5. Praise the one in front of you
    When we praise someone’s qualities out of the feeling of completeness, then it elevates our consciousness and brings enthusiasm and energy. It helps the same qualities blossom in us too and we become better individuals.
  6. Communicate effectively
    We communicate either through our presence or by expressing our feelings. Bring clarity in your communication and you’ll see people respond to you better, and more than often favorably.
  7. Be a lion in the face of danger
    In the face of an adversity, standing up to the challenge will make your chances of survival higher. Don’t give into pressure and face every challenge confidently. Either you will overcome the adversity or learn something invaluable.
  8. Possess the quality of patience
    Patience is the secret ingredient for becoming a winner. Feverishness and prompt reactions will do more harm than good. Remember to stay calm and patient to remain stress-free and for making wise and swift decisions.
  9. Learn the Art of Breathing Right
    Last but not the least, breathe properly. Often largely ignored, breathing holds the key to a stress-free and positive life. Harness the true power of breath by learning Sudarshan Kriya – a simple yet highly effective breathing technique that clears stress at physical, mental and emotional levels of our being.

Personality Development Benefits

  • Stress-free and healthier life
  • Better decision making ability
  • Enhanced confidence level
  • A more pleasing personality

Importance of the Personality Development program

  • Building confidence and boosting enthusiasm
  • Promoting a zealous outlook towards life
  • Imbibing positive thoughts and actions

After all, personality development is nothing but a tool that helps you realize your capabilities and your strengths making you a stronger, a happier and a cheerful person.

THE PRIDE OF INDIA

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THE PRIDE OF INDIA

India, famous for its rich and magnificent culture, has its own sense of ‘amour propre’ when it comes to its whacking extravagance. Beyond its vast land of is own world of Cabbagetown, the commodious colossal palaces perch its substratum. Some of these mansions have been transmuted into royal hotels and museums. These stupendous architectures have their own chronicles to exhibit.
A little account of such palaces are tabulated here:

1.The Oberoi Udaivilas Palace, Udaipur:

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The Oberoi Udaivilas had its own majestic grandeur which is located in Udaipur, Rajasthan. In 2015, it was rated as the world’s best hotel by Travel + Leisure. The conjecture behind the fabrication of this gigantic palace is that it was the hunting ground of Maharana of Mewar, which was around 200 years old. Also, around 40 percent of the total area is dubbed as a wildlife sanctuary .The tariff for a day of stay is INR.25,000.

2.Fernhills Royale Palace, Ooty.

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This was the whilom resident of the Maharaja of Mysore. The palace mimics a Swiss Chalet. Its carved wooden bargeboards and ornamental cast iron give it that quirky semblance. The Palace is spread out over 50 acres (200,000 m2) of lush green lawns, conventionalized gardens and dense woods with picturesque views of terraced tea gardens and prolific ravines. The exaction for a day of vacay is INR. 11,000.

3.Taj Falaknuma Palace, Hyderabad.

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This gigantic architecture belong to the Paigah family and later owned by the Nizam of Hyderabad. Built by the Prime minister of Hyderabad, Nawab Vikar-ul-Umra and the uncle and brother-in-law of the Nizam VI, Nawab Mir Mahboob Ali Khan Bahadur, it is escalated on a land of 32-acres. The assessment of one day linger is INR. 30,000.

 

4.Bangalore Palace, Bengaluru.

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Contrived in an area acceded originally by Rev. J. Garrett, who was the first Principal of the Central High School in Bangalore, now known as Central College, the palace unfurls on an area of 45,000 square feet and the grounds encompassing it are spread across 454 acres .

5. Taj Rambagh Palace Hotel, Jaipur.

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Former domicile of the Maharaja of Jaipur, this colossal framework is located 5 miles (8.0 km) outside the walls of the city of Jaipur on Bhawani Singh Road. In the early 20th century, it was dilated into a palace to the prototype of Sir Samuel Swinton Jacob. Maharaja Sawai Man Singh ll made Rambagh his residence of honour and annexed a number of royal suites in 1931. The tariff for a day of stay is INR.35,000.

Meditation : The magical solution to all problems

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As we all know that these days the life of everyone is full of a lot of problems. Stress, tension, anxiety and depression have become the common issues behind people’s miseries. It is a very well-known quote :

“If you want to conquer the anxiety of life, live in the moment, live in the breath.”

To overcome the problems of life, one is required to peep into one’s own inner self. One should look into his/her own self and should first try to find out the reason behind his/her misery. After that, he/she should try to question his/her own self that whether the reason behind his/her misery is worthy of lamenting or not. This is because it is often found that people worry unnecessarily over such things which are not at all important and stay trapped in the web of unnecessary worries and miseries.

The only way to escape from the web of unnecessary worries and miseries is mediation. Yes, you have heard it right. Meditation is the solution to each and every problem. It is having innumerable benefits which can help people live a tranquil life.

Meditation : The magical solution to all problems

But now the question arises that how can one meditate. Is there any process of meditation? Can meditation be learned? Who can meditate? Is it possible for everyone to meditate? Is meditation tough to practice? From where can one learn to meditate? These are the general questions which may arise in everybody’s mind. In this article, we will answer all these questions to give you a deep understanding about meditation.

Meditation is a process of focusing all of ones attention at his/her own self by controlling ones breathing. It may seem silly to some to hear that for meditation one needs to control ones breathing. But it is true that in meditation, one needs to control his/her breath. This control on breath doesn’t mean that one is required to stop ones breath. It is about focusing deeply on ones every single inhale and exhale. It is about feeling each and every breath deeply.

Meditation : The magical solution to all problems

Though control on breathing is the most important part of meditation, but it involves a proper process. Following is the process of meditation :

  • Make up your mind for mediation
  • Wear comfortable clothes
  • Find a serene environment
  • Fix the time goal
  • Sit in the correct posture
  • Hands should be kept in Dhyaan Mudra
  • Start focusing on breathing
  • Think about your goal
  • Think positively
  • Push away all negative thoughts
  • Continue this for 10-15 minutes (or more, depending upon ones practice)
  • After you are done, come back to reality with a positive mind

In answer to the question that can meditation be learned, we would like to inform you that meditation is a process requiring a lot of patience. One cannot acquire such patience on ones own, so one needs to learn meditation from a trained person.

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Anybody can learn to practice meditation. It is possible for everyone to meditate but meditation requires strong will power. A person should be strongly determined to practice meditation before starting it.

Meditation is not at all tough to practice. But a person needs to be highly patient to achieve a tranquil state in meditation. It is because, in the beginning, one may find it extremely tough to concentrate and ones head may be filled with a lot of nonsense thoughts. But with continual practice, one can easily achieve the tranquil meditative state and can enjoy the innumerable benefits of meditation.

There are a lot of spiritual organizations which give people training of meditation. Many yog shivirs are also held to train people in meditation. Some of the famous places where one can learn meditation include Art of Living, Brahma kumaris and Divya Jyoti Jagriti Sansthan. There are also a lot of professional trainers for meditation who give people training of meditation at their home.

So, learning to practice meditation is no more a tough thing as there are a lot of options available from where one can learn to practice meditation.