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Travel and fall in love….

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Do you ever fell in love?  Have you ever been to a solo trip?  Have you ever tried to go beyond your geographical boundaries? Have you ever met to any stranger and thought that Yes, we are identical. We have a connection sort of thing which we can take to next level and beyond. Some people are more than what they seem. Have you ever  feel that you are empty inside? Need to fill yourself up with such good things which will make you feel fresh and extremely an interesting person inside and out too? Need a break? Have you ever think of  being lost in some random thoughts?

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The answers to these kind of questions is one and only and i.e., “JUST TRAVEL SOLO.”  You guys would think why I am telling you to travel solo?  So let me tell you that “Travelling is not just taking a journey, it is like breathing.” Without breathing you cannot survive so as the case with travelling. For travelling solo you don’t need to do much efforts- just find a place to go, pack your bags, make a check list of things and mark it CHECK, book your hotel,  and just go through the roads less travelled.  You are not supposed to wait for somebody who is a late comer or with whom you don’t want to share your trip, or who maybe is a spoiler. You will experience totally different world and the crazy yourself. Believe me! Every human is crazy in some or other manner. Just try it once and you will thank me :p

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I should say “Travel and Travel as much as you can as it will make you find yourself.”  In the middle, If  you’ll loose yourself  let it be, you’ll  find an inner self, immense inner peace which will make you a new person. By loosing yourself you will find your soul which is damaged and need to be heal.

If you never fell in love then go for travelling.  If you want to give time to yourself  just travel. Suppose you want to hijack a negative you in yourself so just be positive and TRAVEL J you will definitely find Love during the journey. You will find love in every street, bridge, town, village, river, tree, wind, sand, dirt, rain, and in each and everything you pass on during your travel. You will fall in love with the new, refreshing WIND which blows away your stress, worries and tensions. When it will pass through, you will feel it’s touch everytime and can feel it. That sensation will take you to a new place. Each time when it will blow, it will take your hair off from your face you’ll  feel as if you are  safe and protected. You will fall in love with the ROADS  which will lead you to the destinations which you are not made for but actually which are made for you. These roads become your friend who will not leave you in any of the circumstances you are in. These roads will take you  where you will be able to meet the new you at every new place you reach. Whether it will be day or night, it will chase you nonstop and you’ll get a good company till your journey ends. You will fall in love with the TREES, the more you travel the more it seems as if they are talking to you. Their beauty, their color, their textures, their way of protecting you from the harsh weather, the rustling of leaves will definitely make you awestruck. You can’t even imagine the life which they make you live during your journey. You will fall for the SAND  which with every blow of wind touches you and makes you feel so down to earth and  a newly born child with a new skin covering up the previous layer. It will not remain with yourself every time but teaches you a lesson that you cannot destroy me as you are a part of me and sooner or later you will have to come to me. You can’t hold it but can feel it’s strength when come in touch with the water. The sand will make you feel clean and tidy in some or the other way. Trust me!!

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You will fall for the OCEANS, LAKES, SEAS, RIVERS  as with every wave emerging in, it motivates you to reach that level to touch it. It will talk to you about its love, passion and how does the waves make love when it merges with the silent sea water lying deep down at the surface. You will feel alive when you touch it and let it make you fall in love with you. You will fall in love with the PEOPLE  you meet on your journey. Sometimes the strangers you met while travelling become your friends with whom you want to share your every trip. It will make you confident and feel less shy. You will start accepting the world as it is. Some people will make you feel like you know them and feels connected. I hope you heard that “What you see is not always the truth, sometimes it’s a way of god telling you that you still can clear your thoughts out.” This means that what people seem sometimes they are not the same. People are different in each and every term, you just need to understand them. You will fall in love with the HILLS, MOUNTAINS, SEASHORES  as they will talk to you when you will feel like talking to someone else. Whatever you’ll say they’ll talk to you and give you the answers to all your questions you might ask to them. You just need to listen to them carefully by keeping your mind, soul and heart at one place i.e., where you are right now.  Most importantly, you will fall in love with YOURSELF.  You will feel the new you, started feeling confident, free from prejudices. You will start thinking about the world in a new way which you will never gonna regret for. Travelling will provide you the space to talk solely with yourself , No matter how much long it will take. You will find your fears, strengths, and deals with them accordingly. A Traveler becomes a storyteller which will enables you to find other storytellers with whom you can talk endlessly.

Travelling will solve your every query raised in your life. If you never had any trip before so just go and grab it. Grab that opportunity for wherever and whenever you get a chance to travel, don’t loose it. If you’ll loose  a chance; you’ll loose one life..

Start thinking about it “Go somewhere, it takes you everywhere”

10 tips to enjoy the luxury destination of Dubai on a backpacker’s budget

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Being a backpacker isn’t easy. If you get worried sick about your nails getting chipped, trust me backpacking adventure isn’t for you. But if you’re like me who has this undying urge of seeing the world as it is no matter what, trust me, there’s nothing better than packing your bags and becoming a nomad. Being a backpacker allows you to be mobile and travel alone anywhere you want. But travelling alone doesn’t mean loneliness, in fact travelling allows you to make numerous friends all over the world.

All my world adventures have given me distinct experiences. One such experience was travelling on a budget to Dubai. Why was it a distinct experience? Well, because everyone believed Dubai is NOT a backpacker’s destination. I’ve travelled Dubai on a backpacking budget and loved every minute of it. Whoever says Dubai only welcomes the rich. I was smitten by the warmth and hospitality of Dubai at every step and would definitely comeback for more.

For all those travelling to Dubai on a backpacking budget, here are 10 important tips that will make your Dubai experience truly unforgettable.

  1. Take the Dubai Metro

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Anywhere you go as a backpacker, taking public transport is a need but in Dubai it is a pleasure. The driverless Dubai metro welcomes you with comfortable metro trains having a stop near almost every tourist attraction of the city. Take a day or a week’s pass and you won’t believe how fast and economically you can travel all around Dubai.

  1. Try the Dubai Street food

Although, it is beyond doubt that the opulent fine dines are capable of making you feel helplessly tempted, the street food scene of Dubai is no less magnificent. A foodie’s paradise, Dubai street food serves you every great cuisine of the world including Japanese, Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi, European, Italian, Chinese, Mexican, and a lot more.

P.S. When on a budget, go for Indian food. It is super delicious and the cheapest.

  1. See the touristy attractions on the Big Bus tour

Dubai has so many attractions to visit that it might take you days altogether if you plan to visit attractions one by one. The best option is the exclusive Big Bus tour. I travelled with Rayna tours big bus sightseeing tour. It was economical, very comfortable and made me see the best of city attractions. Having a one day sightseeing tour allows you to see all the attractions at one go and then decide which one you want to explore more. For me it was Miracle garden. It’s truly a miracle growing over 45 million natural flowers in the desert dominated region and present them all so beautifully.

  1. No need to tag along mineral water bottles

I have this habit of drinking lot of water and it’s a scary thought drinking regular water at unknown places while travelling. The last thing you want is to get sick. This leads to a lot of investment in mineral water bottles during the trips, but Dubai is a great money saver in this regard. The water of Dubai is declared safe to drink by WHO and there are water taps at all the prominent public places. I enjoyed drinking at the public places without any health fear.

  1. Don’t shy away from bargain

The souks (Arabian term for market) of Dubai are renowned all over the world for their extensivevariety of goods. But what most don’t know that it is perfectly fine to haggle at these souks. The vendors don’t mind, in fact, they expect you to bargain and that is why most of them quote a higher price. So, be smart, and don’t shy to say your best price. It not only saves you a lot of money but also is great fun.

  1. Visit the free attractions of Dubai

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The wonderful city of Dubai pleasantly surprised me with amazing free attractions. Yes, most of the world-renowned attractions like the Dubai aquarium, BurjKhalifa (not the observation deck), Bastakiya quarter are free of cost. How cool is that? Also, some of the must visit places are so cheap that they seem to be practically free for their worth such as the insightful Dubai museum, Al Fahidi fort, the traditional Abra ride (it’s a must do activity), Dubai Heritage area,Dubai fountainLake Ride,Jumeirah beach (the only free beach in the city) and more.

  1. Spend some time at the magnificent free parks of Dubai

Mostly, backpackers need time to sit somewhere and connect with the world through their laptops. Additionally, I love people watching, so some relaxed time is much needed. The splendid parks of Dubai are the perfect locations to spend some quality evening time with your laptop and do people watching. I personally loved the Safapark and the Burj Park. The sky high BurjKhalifa looks spectacular from the park.

  1. Book tickets online

Dubai is a tourist hub and you can find numerous deals on just about everything across the year. Take the advantage and enjoy the amazing discounts across everything, right from food, airfares, accommodation and more. There are various sites offering amazing deals and combos for the delight of backpackers like us. Keep yourself subscribed and enjoy the benefits.

  1. Take advantage of the happy hours

Dubai has plethora of restaurants and they very well know how to tap their customers at all times during the day. I’ve had some of the most relishing meals during the happy hours of great high priced restaurants which were otherwise unaffordable. A little bit of research and you can end up hogging a giant meal at peanut pricing. There have been times when I’ve had such heavy afternoon meals that I ended up having soup only at night.

  1. Stay in the heart of the city

The best way to save huge on your Dubai travel is by staying in the heart of the city. Yes, Dubai has a sharp contrast of the high-end areas like Sheikh Zayed road, Downtown Dubai, and Jumeirah beach road and mid- cap places like Diera and Bastakiya, Al Rigga, Bur Dubai. Such mid cap areasare perfect if you want to live at almost equal distance from all the major landmarks. These are the places where the expenses on accommodation is very reasonable, plus you’ll get the best variety of food and also will get to see the regular life of a local.

I went to Dubai, defying the advice of everyone around me and enjoyed one of the most unforgettable travel experiences. There’s so much diversity, such variety in just about everything and yet, all is perfectly blended as if each one of them belonged there.

Movie Riview-Anarkali Of Aarah!

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Summary- Hailing from a town in Bihar (Arah), Anarkali (Swara Bhaskar) is a singer and dancer who is famous and infamous for her vocals and dancing moves. She celebrates the attention she gets and makes peace with the hatred she evokes within civilised society of her area. The problem in her life begins when she refuses to get exploited in public by powerful politician portrayed by Sanjay Mishra.

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Swara Bhaskar in the scene from Anarkali of Aarah

Riview-The movie carries the message which says “when a girls says No it means No” as shown in the flick ‘Pink’. With impressive authenticity and flawless acting skills of Swara Bhaskar the movie gets emotional weight. It simply throws light on the subject that women with singing-dancing profession too has right to uphold their dignity snd should not be considered as the fringe elements of the society.

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Swara Bhaskar in the emtional scene from the movie

Most importantly the movie gave achance to Swara Bhaskar to put her impeccable acting skills on display. The music and rustic settings adds to the genuine feel which movie tries to connect with. The flick makes us think how women who performs item songs at Bhojpuri lyrics should be considered in society.

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Sanjay Mishra in the scene from Anarkali of Aarag

What did not work in the movie was Sanjay Mishra’s light weight villainry which looked comic at places. The film could have been better if the antagonist was more strong. The society which holds women responsible for triggering aggressive sexual behaviour in men has a lot to learn from this film.

WORLD’S MOST LETHAL WEAPON : THE TATTI

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A five-year-old girl would be dead by the time you finish reading this article.  Well, you can’t do anything for that and death won’t stop if you stop reading so, read on.The combined tally of deaths caused by the nuclear explosion was around 2 lakhs for Hiroshima and Nagasaki. But, every year 8 lakh children are dying due to diarrhoea making it 284 times more lethal than the little boy and the Fatman(the cute name given to destruction).

Extraordinary death caused by technology/military/terrorists seem exquisite to us, that is why we tend to remember them for so long. The ordinary death of the defenceless does not give us that pleasure(to contemplate upon causes and create conspiracy theories). This is when these ordinary deaths can be avoided easily.

You might have thought this article is some joke but wait, sometimes the truth needs to be told in the form of a joke so that people don’t beat you up for that. This is some serious stuff and what is coming will make you uncomfortable so if you lack the guts please stop now.

These children are left unattended like we leave our children to consume shit and die

Now, for a minute I make you the judge to solve this case.

Sunder and his friends were putting slow poison in the village pond every day, in one year 200 of the villagers died of it. So, would you as a judge charge Sunder and his friends for murder?

Almost all of us will answer affirmatively to that, we will try Sunder and give him harshest of punishment. Now, apply the same logic to the villagers who shit here and there turning the village nimboo pani(lemonade) into diarrhoea pani(diarrhoea water), would you put the entire village population behind bars.

No, here the fundamental difference is the lack of understanding of the consequences of the action. Sunder intentionally put the poison into the pond but the villagers they did not know that their shit is toxic, that their shit will tomorrow kill their own people, that saving Rs. 10000 in building the toilet costs them the lives of their children and dignity of their women (whom the village male stare at while squatting)

‘’So, tell them it is lethal and they will stop’’ most of you must be thinking. But just imagine if I tell you tomorrow that your using toilet is dangerous for others and you should better defecate in open. How would you feel? Won’t you be uncomfortable to try out a new practice? Change scares humans, even us living in hostels tend to use the same toilet seat every time so, then how to bring fast and effective change?

Change is a process, though it starts with information but it does not end there. For eg., there is a propensity of flies that if it finds the food interesting, it vomits the old food and fill up its tummy with new. Now, most of the flies sit on the shit, so next time you see a fly on your plate then remember it has vomited the shit there and you will eat the shit. Apartment people don’t generally eat human excreta they will eat dog’s/pig’s or any of your beloved pets shit.

Now this information which is actually a fact  is going to make you uncomfortable at the sight of flies for days but after a while, you will loose interest in the absence of any option(you can’t leave those tasty samosas just because there is some shit in that). However, what if I sell you some shitless samosas, yes, you will readily take it.

The same kind of approach is needed for Swachh Bharat Mission, first inform people that there is shit in their food and the shit is killing them then, provide them with choices on how to combat it i.e construction of toilets etc. But what about the people who don’t have money(the money under SBM comes after you construct half of the toilet), involve MNREGA  to construct it for them.

All these issues have been dealt with in our proposal. We want the government to adopt them, you can contribute in that. Visit the link below and see for yourself, vote if you think that it has some merit (Some terms are technical just youtube it). Please give your suggestions in the comments section. The girl mentioned at the beginning has died but your 15 seconds can cause policy change and can save the other one waiting to be consumed by death.

TEAM: SWA CHETHNA

In Conversation With Best Selling Writer-Sudeep Nagarkar

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Sudeep Nagarkar does not needs any introduction as far as writing field is concerned.He is the best selling author of nine books.He is not only a good writer but also a good human being.He has readers from all over the world.

1.At what age he started writing

He started  writing in his after twenties at the age of  23 – 24

  1. His first creation was published in the year

His first book named Few Things Left Unsaid was published on 10th July 2011 which received a warm response from everyone.It was the debut novel for Sudeep Nagarkar.

 

3.His idea of becoming a full time writer

As Writing was his passion .He had written a couple of books.  Its was quite difficult to shift from engineering to management and then finally to becoming a full time writer.But he  had believe in himself was able to convince  his parents about his idea of becoming a full time writer.

 

  1. How many days he takes to complete a book

He takes a couple of months to complete writing his books.

  1. His stories are fiction

All his stories in his books are not out of fiction but are the stories of real life incidents.His stories are inspired from the real life incidents.His latest book All Rights Reserved For You is also the story of his life.

  1. How his life has changed after becoming a writer

After becoming a successful writer nothing has changed in his life.He is  same for his friends his family his relatives.He tries his level best to reply to his readers messages.He does not thinks how many books by him have been sold.Instead he tries to give readers a message through his books and tries to make positive changes in his books.In short he tries his level best to give a social message to his readers in his books.

  1. How he stay calm while writing a book                      

      He tries to stay calm while writing a book.He is supported by his spouse Jasmine.She is the one who supports him while he is writing a book.She calms her down from the very start of him writing a book to the book being published.

 

  1. At what time he prefers writing during day or in night

He doesn’t have any specific time to write.Once he starts writing he gets completely engrossed in it.

 

  1. His first reader

All his books are always read by Jasmine.She is his first reader from his very first book to his latest book.

  1. His message to all the budding writers and his extended family his readers?

His message to especially the Budding Writers is to be patient and to be honest in their writings.

His message to his extended family his readers is to stay happy stay healthy.To come out of the virtual world and live in the real world.To spend time with friends and family.

 

Movie Riview of Phillauri!

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Phillauri is a sweet and soaring love story covering it’s story telling with earnestness. Audience will walk out of theatres with smile. Despite the movie contains many soft spots it still works as in the end the flick is a love-story. Writer Anvita Dutt Guptan and debutante director Anshai Lal tell us about old century’s culture, clothes and expression which change with time but the exquisite emotion of love remains same. Narrative moves between 1919 and 2017 between dead ones ( a couple who yearned for each other) and living beings. There is another couple of present time who love each

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other but are torn apart by fear and doubt. The boy, played by Suraj Sharma at one point says tha he just wants to find himself. Meanwhile his bride to be wonders and cries why a man she loved since childhood is reluctant to spend his life with her. The story juggles and the director struggles to keep all the balls in the air at many scenes. The first half is not much revealing but thankfully the second half has more meat. The two songs composed by newcommer

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Mehrene Kaur Pirzada in the movie Phillauri

(Sashwat Sachdev) are magical( Dum Dum and Sahiba). These songs skillfully delves deep into romance and through these songs Diljit Dosanjh and Anushka Sharma come into their roles. Their love-story is filled with old world charm. The present day story enacted by Suraj Sharma and

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Diljit Dosanjh in the scene from Phillauri

and Mehrene Kaur Pirzada too has emotional depth. All four actors delivered solid performances which helped eclipsing flaws in the movie. In the last part, the director has put too much effort to put ‘Rooplal’ and ‘Shashi’ as iconic lovers. The special affects are done well and ultimately movie is worth a watch.

“Bhanwarey” a laugh riot, well executed film

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24th March 2017 saw the release of Bhanwarey, a dark comedy loosely based on the male health problems in men. Although we have seen some indirect efforts at addressing sex-problems in the past, but no one has shown the grit to pick this up as a topic to make a full fledged feature film. To start with, the film is hilarious. It leaves you with one laugh riot after another and does not give you a chance to fully recover from the previous one before sending you through another piece of hilarity. It’s mostly tongue in cheek humor and at times goes to sexual innuendos but doesn’t get vulgar.
BhanwareyBhanwarey is a film that despite being a low budget film and having no big names and faces, caters to the mass audience and provides wholesome laugh therapy. Bhanwarey is a nonstop comic caper and the film has become successful in leaving a mark despite a couple of films that boast of good star cast and big budgets.
Bhanwarey a comedy of error is crude and that raw form is the plus point of the film. The audience is relating with the characters and the way Shaurya Singh has directed the film, there is not a single dull moment in the film.
 What works in favor of the film is its dialogues and wonderful acting even though the story does not have ground breaking stuff to offer despite picking up a very unique issue and theme.
“Bhanwarey” a laugh riot, well executed filmThe film is gaining momentum and one of the biggest reason for the same is performances. Shaurya Singh, Karhan Dev and Jashan Singh are so real as Manoj, Pushp and Machchi that it forces the audience to fall in love with them and sympathize. Priyanka Shukla convincingly looks like an old Delhi girl and has delivered that raw performance. Manoj Bakshi as “Maqsood bhai” an underworld Don who struggles with his english but never gives up, has done a wonderful job. Matin Khan as “SuSu Pandey” has played the weird character well. The spirit of Bhanwarey literally brings the variety of characters you will meet when you walk the streets of Old Delhi
The film ran to packed houses in Mumbai on Friday itself despite them being early morning shows, as early as 10:30 AM and 11:00 AM. The film brings back the charm of old Delhi and the kind of ambiance that we have experienced in the movies Delhi Belly and Fukrey.
Shaurya Singh, in his debut movie as a Director/Producer has left no stone upturned to make the movie interesting enough for both masses and classes. Regardless of being an independent film maker and making a feature film on a tight budget has made sure that he doesn’t go wrong anywhere even if he does not create a masterpiece. He has focused on technical side more to make sure that the movie is crisp and background score goes in line with the action. Also, with an open ended climax, he seems to have left a door open for a sequel. Nonetheless, it’s more of a director’s film rather than an actors’ film nevertheless actors have handled their responsibility with utmost satisfaction of the director. Nobody goes overboard in humor and cinematography is as per the need. Bhanwarey gives a taste of independent film making and brings the joy of independent cinema. The overall look of the film is crude and there lies the beauty of “Bhanwarey”. Do add it to your MUST WATCH list.
Catch Bhanwarey in your nearest Cinema Halls, 24th March 2017 onward
Ratings  ⭐⭐⭐

Things only people with good sense of humor will understand!

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Good sense of humor has always amazed me, and helped me escape many serious situations. It has been researched that people with good sense of humor have a higher IQ than the ones who don’t. All those with great sense of humor would definitely relate to these:

  • Your turn off? Duh!

    Unlike normal people, bad smell or shabby dressing style does not turn you off. What’s turns you off the most is other people’s bad sense of humor. It completely drives you crazy when they laugh at their own poor jokes, and make the other dumb ones in the group laugh too! “Oh God! Take me out of here.”

  • Yes, he is our topper of the class! *The guy cries over getting low grade* Oh-oh! Trouble!

    You can not handle drama even for a second. The minute you see drama around, you know its time to leave.You fail to understand what the big deal is in most of the things happening around you. This has helped you keep your life sorted in a way, but has led you to lose friends on the other hand.

  • ‘Chandler’ and ‘Barney’ are like your soul mate characters!

    You connect to the characters of ‘Chandler’ from ‘Friends’ and ‘Barney’ from ‘How I met your mother’ on a spiritual level. They are the people you look up to, when stuck in a serious situation.

  • “OH! I like the way you make me shut up!” *No double meaning intended*

    You are known for making fun of other people, and some people don’t even talk to you because they are scared of you. But you completely fall for people who can answer back in a witty manner, without getting offended. These people are generally your best friends.

  • “I’m serious.” People: “HAHAHAHA! You’re hilarious!”

    People never take you seriously. You have landed yourself into troubles many a times just because of this. “Like, what do I even do for people to take me seriously?” Sigh. “But hah! Who cares?”

  • “I can’t be sad for more than 5 minutes, is something wrong with me?”

    You have given this a serious thought, of why you can’t be serious for more than 5 minutes. The longest you’ve

  • Your dictionary does not have the word ‘Limit’.

    You have no boundaries. Sometimes, your “jokes” tend to land you up in trouble.

  • You either have best friends or the greatest enemies! No where in middle.

  • Epic is spelled as my name!

DIGITAL AMNESIA

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Digital Amnesia is the over reliance on technology such as computers, mobiles, and search engines etc for storing and remembering information. It is the experience of forgetting information for excessive trust on digital devices. Many of us who could remember phone numbers when we were children or teenagers are now incapable of even remembering our own phone or ID numbers. The study, examining the memory habits of 6,000 adults in the UK, France, Germany, Italy, Spain, Belgium, the Netherlands and Luxembourg, found more than a third would turn first to computers or mobiles to recall information. The survey suggests relying on a computer in this way has a long-term impact on the development of memories, because such push-button information can often be immediately forgotten.

Each time we recall information our memory is strengthened and we tend to forget the irrelevant memories with time which is a very efficient way to create a permanent memory. However in case of Digital Amnesia since most of the information are repeatedly looked up on the internet instead of recalling, it doesn’t create a solid long lasting memory. Among adults surveyed in the UK, 45% could recall their home phone number from the age of 10, while 29% could remember their own children’s phone numbers and 43% could remember their work number. The study from Kaspersky Lab, a cyber security firm, says that people have become accustomed to using computer devices as an “extension” of their own brain.

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Some of the major consequences are:

  • Loss of creativity

We are more accustomed with Google and YouTube videos for searching ideas or any creative artwork instead of using our brain. There is also enormous mental pressure and competition in professional life.

  • Affect human memory:

There is lesser mental capability of remembering and retaining information

  • Technological addiction:

People are becoming over dependent on online information for each and every purpose and are also getting addicted to apps like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat etc which are very much time consuming.

  • Digital Divide:

People who have advance technical knowledge are becoming more important and are occupying higher positions in the society whereas those who are financially unstable and have no access to the advanced technology are left out and often termed as backward.

  • Shift in Education pattern:

Due to technological advances there is shift in pattern of studies from books to more online studies. Boards are replaced by Projector screens and students use mobiles to store information instead of reading and writing. Students are given more PowerPoint presentations instead of written assignments and competitive exams are organized online instead of offline or written. Since writing helps in retaining information so there is always tendency of forgetting among students due to these technical advancements.

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Thus the rise of digital amnesia is letting people believe that they can forget information as it can be easily retrieved from the digital devices. This lowers our tendency to retain information in the long term memory which may later become permanent in some cases. Every educated person must be aware enough to control their dependence on digital devices and try to balance it with the other form of knowledge acquisition majorly through the first hand experience.

Therefore the most important function of technology is to help us increase our efficiency and expand our efforts. Whenever this tries to overpower our knowledge and creativity, we must discard its use immediately as it is very hard to get rid of this addiction.

 

Failure story of a STUDENT

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Stressed out student in hallway of school building.

Life is a precious gift given by God. We cannot call it a gift because he takes it back without our permission. We don’t know when we are going to die so without bothering about that knowing the essence of life we need to enjoy every second of it.

Problems are common in life though it is big or small one need to face them boldly. Many of them like a problem free life but remember without problems becomes unfulfilled. Let see a failure to success stories of students.

One cannot experience success alone in his life. Success will teach us nothing new in our life. The failure does it. Without carving stone will not become a sculpture without burning gold will not glitter. One can feel the taste of success only if he fails. Repeated failures may make you lose your self-confidence. But don’t make your mind do that. Realize what is right and what is wrong, gets rather what did you lose. Many people instead of doing get disappointed and commit suicide.

Suicide concept., Depressed young man looking down at his shoe and contemplating suicide., On the edge of a high bridge with forest below.

Why should anyone commit suicide?

These days it became very common for a person to commit suicide, especially youth. These days it became very common for a person to commit suicide, especially youth. Reasons may seem silly to us but the person who commits suicide might have undergone such extreme conditions that he cannot bear his life at that movement. Reasons commonly why students commit suicide are confusion

worries about themselves, sexual and domestic abuse, bullying and peer pressure, love failure etc…,

An unsuccessful story

Here is the story of a student who committed suicide, I wouldn’t like to mention his name let us see what made him to do so.

He is a poor student. His father and mother used to work for daily wages. Until his plus 2, he used to work hard and got seat in an engineering college nearby. He paid the college fees through scholarship. He made many friends in college. Some of them became his best. This book worm scored top marks in college and gathered the attention of many persons and some even felt jealous of him .

After a few days, a beautiful girl with a very convincing eye and a deceiving smile came towards him and proposed him. She is such beautiful that he immediately accepted her love. Thinking that it’s a true love he spent day and night with her  and slowly neglected his studies. In spite of his poverty, he used to carry many gifts for her.  Many of his friends told him that she trapped him and her love is not true but he didn’t listen to them. His love for her even made him lose his friends. He made new friends who are always in a kick of alcohol and drugs. Thinking that she is his life he wasted two years. All these consequences ruined his education. Don’t know what happened the girl started avoiding him. One day he found his girlfriend with another person he went towards her and asked “is he your brother?”. She slapped him and said “ how dare you to call my boyfriend as my brother “and went away.

He called her many times and texted her but no reply. Finally, in the college, she told him that she didn’t really love him but just used him to make her lover jealous. Then he realized why his friends told to leave her. Every single company refused to take him as he didn’t pass his exams. He lost his friends, he lost his career, he was deceived by his girlfriend. Failure after failure made him mentally weak.

He found nothing when he looked back into his life. He got addicted to drinking and drugs. He was unable to recollect himself. The only thing he thought to do is to put an end to his life. He did it. He put some amount of drugs and waited for God to take his soul away.

Where did he go wrong?

Attractions are common in this age one should know the difference between true love and false love. Good friends will never try to deceive us listen to them. The person didn’t do the above two. Instead, he put a full stop to his life. He forgot about his parents. This is not correct if there is no education, no job, will there be no life many uneducated people stood as role models for us and a lot of educated people are working under them. Putting an end to our life doesn’t make sense. Finally, remember one thing “life is what you make it”. Try to be successful don’t take a step back in that attempt. Committing suicide is a sin. If you are not able to live for yourself live for others and make your life a meaningful one.