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THE PERFECT BRIDE PART I

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After answering her last question to the reporter, she took a deep breath. Her face flushed red and her heart was still beating fast. She was numb with fear as the crowd around was silent as the grave. Her five year old daughter noticed her mother’s face covered with beads of sweat. She clenched her mom’s fingers with all her strength as if they were one.

Gauri was the girl of every boy’s dream. Her jet black silky hair covered the mole on her waist. Her sharp features complimented her hazel skin which was as tender as the skin of a baby. While she saw the world from a height of 5″ 5, people admired her from miles. Gauri loved wearing a red bindi in between her crescent lush eyebrows. Her deer like eyes sparkled like stars. Even a gunny bag could accentuate her curves. Gauri’s parents had always taken care of her beauty so that she could get the perfect groom but Gauri was way beyond this. The only thing that ever attracted her was her medical books. She was the student of the best medical college of her state. While she continued topping exams, her mom kept filtering eligible bachelors for her. Her mailbox was full of proposals from various matrimonial sites. After her dad published her profile in the matrimonial columns of the daily, the phone never stopped ringing.

Finally after searching the perfect groom for years they found the trophy boy for their girl. His impeccable résumé that had bagged him a plump job in a Silicon Valley company also worked wonders for her parents. Without even caring for Gauri’s consent, they arranged a meeting with his family. After all they did not want the best fish to slip away from their hands.

When she returned home that evening, Gauri’s mom broke the news to her that next day she had to skip college. A boy would come to see her. She tried to negate but failed as her mom’s dream of seeing her in a bridal dress and mangalsutra was more important than her dream of wearing an apron and a stethoscope.

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Her mom purchased a dhakai jamdani from the best shop in town. She bought sweets which her family could not afford on daily basis. Her mom had visited the bank locker so that she could take out some gold jewellery which would match with Gauri’s sari. Though she did not need anything to make her beautiful but it was a way of showing how lucrative the marriage was for the boy’s family.

Gauri’s family welcomed the “perfect groom”. Her mom made him sit on the sofa which was dusted several times before they entered the house. They made sure, the room looked picturesque. Her mom cleaned every show piece, swiped the floor, cleared the cobwebs and cooked palatable food. The groom’s family scanned the room and exchanged looks among themselves. Gauri’s mom called her to come down and the beautiful lady descended the stairs. Unlike other brides her head was held high, her face brimmed with confidence. She sat on the seat next to her father and introduced herself. Her mom was red with rage for Gauri’s upfront nature. She had signaled her to put her head down but she did not.

The Maheshwari family had interrogated her about her future plans to which she replied that she will continue with post graduation after getting married. His family looked at her contemptuously. Gauri and Rishav were sent to her room to talk privately for few minutes. The door was kept ajar so that her mom could eavesdrop.

Gauri’s room was adorned with medals and certificates. Beside her bed was a bookshelf which had books written by authors all across the globe. The 6″2 tall boy brushed his hand against the books and asked Gauri, “Did you read all of them?”, “Most of them but I will finish reading them all after I am done with my internship. “, said she. The conversation continued on books they read, authors they liked, movies they watched etc. While Gauri continued stating her points, Rishav’s eyes followed her fidgety hands, her eyes which brightened up while speaking about Tagore, curls of her hair that started from her shoulder and her dimple which became visible when she smiled. When Gauri caught his wandering eyes, he looked away. Rishav was way too bewitched by her beauty; he had made up his mind to marry her. He was indifferent about her likes, dislikes and interests. He just wanted to bring the prettiest bride home.

After fifteen minutes and more, they left the room. The family sat for lunch and Gauri and her mom served the food. Her mom sang praises how well Gauri cooked food and how they will miss her when she gets married. The dining table discussion ranged from their wedding plans to their childhood stories. The plates were soon empty and they decided to leave. They assured them that they will inform their decision over the phone.

After they left, Gauri’s mom stormed her with questions. She was really confused because the meeting was too short for her to jump into a conclusion but her mom kept mind washing her. She emotionally blackmailed her by reminding her of their struggle and financial status. She approved out of pressure and they got a confirmation call from the perfect groom.

The wedding preparations started, the priest suggested them a date after two months which they approved. After a tiring day in ward, Gauri had to help her mom in the wedding preparations. Her mom broke all the FDs and sold some land to make the wedding pompous and grand. Gauri had to abide by her mother’s order of working out and visiting the parlor daily. She was taken in shops to buy dresses and jewellery. She had to attend number of congratulatory calls from people who never bothered her when she cracked the medical exams. Her dad arranged the wedding hall and caterers. They invited all the people their brain cells could remember.

Meanwhile the bride and groom exchanged messages on various social media sites. Rishav pretended all these two months to reduce the factors of jeopardizing his marriage with her. He sounded like those ideal romantic prince charming every girl dreamt of. Gauri on the other hand made sure that he is aware of all his weakness and strengths. To her marriage was being one from two.

Finally the most awaited day arrived. Gauri wore a red lehenga which had floral design all across them. The bottom was studded with stones. Gold necklaces encircled her neck, heavy earrings hanged from her earlobes. The bangles on her hand covered the mehendi on her wrist. Her long hair was neatly tied in a bun. She sat along with the groom in brown sherwani on two gigantic couches which had designs on them.
The wedding hall was buzzing with people. It had lights twinkling in every corner. All the guests were busy talking, eating, dancing, singing and enjoying. They appeared happier than the bride and groom. Occasionally few guests visited the Gauri and Rishav, they teased them and clicked photographs with them. Both of them were surrounded by gifts and flowers gifted by people.

This continued for few hours and then the bride and groom were called to tie the knot. The priests performed the rituals. People crowded the place. Gauri was made to recite mantras and take the saath pheras. Finally Rishav filled the parting of her hair with vermillion. From the crowd her paternal aunt whispered, “The girl is no longer a member of our family.”
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Part II coming soon…

Discriminating not just on the basis of gender, caste, or religion, but hairs too!

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Girls!! Want to be more feminine?  More prettier? More charming and beautiful?

Come one come all. Shave some shave all!! Get rid of “unwanted “hair. Yes!! Hairs visible on your bare arms can make you look monstrous, then why not remove them? Beauty is just a painful wax away! Waxing makes you more appealing physically and revolves the world around you

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Does it really? It is no April fools day. Sitting idly, watching my somewhat hairy hands, I wondered, had barbie dolls been hairy all over, who would have bought them for their kids? Contradictorily, another thought that strikes me is that while teddy bears are all hairy everywhere, they are preferably more adorable than barbies.

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If removing the hair off your body makes you look and feel more pleasant, then why not shaving off the hairs over the head is considered equally pleasant too?  My argument is not to convince you all to never shave it or keep it, rather, my focus is on telling everybody that introducing changes of any kind in our lifestyle should be as per our wishes, and not for others if these changes don’t benefit us spiritually.

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If a hairless body is “feminine”, then why restrictions to shave the heads? Long hairs are almost “mandatory” for girls everywhere, speaking of India in particular. Also, it is believed that girls with long hairs must behave gently. However, girls having short hair are scorned seldom.  Why?

 

 

In hostels and schools, to maintain uniformity among all the students, they are uniformed likewise; however, attempts are made to make them have short hair. In schools, girls with long hair must form plates, while in hostels, all their hairs are chopped off to resemble alike.

 

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The main idea being that it is easy to control them if their hairs are short.

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Had Katrina Kaif really been Katrina Kaif with all her hairs visible, irrespective of her talent? Also, if now she appears publicly without waxing any hair, either her fans would all be enraged or they could take it positively, loving her as always.  Companies selling such products sell them not as beauty treatments or enhancement products, rather, the advertisements they make to promote their sales, produce effects on viewers that only after using such products the society would accept these individuals as suitable. The societal notion of “beauty” is very complex, typical, and difficult to change but surely, not impossible.

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Hence, one cannot be more “feminine” or “masculine” by removing or adding hairs or something else. Such notions are stereotypical and largely societal. However, one can certainly be more honest with oneself by doing what one wants or likes for oneself, without pressure of any kind.

 

 

MAY BE

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MAYBE ONE DAY HE WILL LOOK BACK
TO THAT GIRL WHO LACK
MAYBE ONE DAY SHE WILL MOVE ON
AND HE WILL REGRET THE FACT
MAYBE ONE DAY HER DREAM WILL COME TRUE
SHE WILL BE AT THE AIRPORT WITH DREAMS IN HER BAG
MAY BE HE LL BE BROKEN ,
MAY ONE DAY HE WILL CALL HER BACK
AND THIS TIME MAY BE……..

Book review- The Ribbon trap

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The ribbon trap explores the world of a young, intelligent and aspirant girl, Smita. Smita proves to be the phoenix who rises on it own ashes. Smita had only one dream and that was to marry her lover Krishnaprem, an orphan. She knew she could reach the goal only through achieving a position in society, As her parents could be a strong opposition to their marriage. She worked very hard and as a result she was made the assitant collector after passing the examination. She had just set her foot in the reality of dreams. Life, for her, had turned out the way she wanted. But life is never a bed of roses. Some terrible surprises awaited her in the new city, Coimbatore. An unfortunate event turned the world upside down for her. She was acknowledged as a criminal who had assasinated the prime minister, whose security arrangements had been done by her.Because of the incessant tortured that were inflicted upon her, She loses her sanity, her physical beauty and everything that made her Smita. She lost interest in life and wanted to die. It was doctor Matthew whose tireless efforts brought her back to life. She knew what next she had to do. She knew that finding the real culprits is the new aim in life. She sets out to search for the real conspirers behind the prime minister’s assasination. The author has portrayed political world in detail. The hidden filth of politics is evident in every episode. The ugly game of thrones and positive image costed a girl her everything, and this is the story all about.

Reviewer’s Views- According to me The author has created an ambience of suspence which is maintained throughout the play. The story on the whole is predictable but the investigation is very uncertain and it lures the reader to stick to itself. The story commences like any bollywood movie and the word picture created by the author helps the readers to visualise the whole scene. The story is one of a kind and I would consider it as one of the best I have ever read if I avoid the setbacks.

Set backs– 1. After recovering from trauma, Smita was released and she was aquitted free despite being the supreme suspect for the assasination of the prime minister.
2. Krishnaprem, Smita’s fiance joins in the investigation much later saying that he had been following them ever since they started it. Smita and Rasheed were on an important mission where they did not notice, and discussed everything in front of people without maintaining their secrecy. It was that easy for Krishnaprem to follow their steps, and it would have been equally easy for her rivals. But they somehow resorted different means.

Book- The Ribbon Trap.
Writer- Shine Syamaladevi.
Publisher- lifi publications pvt. ltd.
First published- 2016.
Genre- Detective and mystery stories.

Ratings: 4/5.

Are smartphones more important than human relations?

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Hello everyone, We always keep our eyes on the most popular things around us, which seems bright, appealing, fascinating, charming but deep down they are the most darkest things because they just bright from outside and hollow from inside. In the limelight of those fascinating things we makes our selves so engrossed that we hardly realize that it could take away something most precious from ourselves.

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Today, from your busy schedule I just want 10 minutes to read this article because at the last of this article, we all as humans would surely give a second thought to our relationships. We, in today’s time spent our most of the times with our smartphones rather than sitting and spending time with our grandparents and parents and discussing about what is going on in their life. We all are forgetting that these smartphones are mere machine, nothing else but we have made this unpopular thing, so popular one. We are ignoring our rooted relationships just to be engrossed with this materialistic thing. We ourselves has made these smartphones are self and made our human relations as others. As we keep ourselves busy most of the times with smartphones and knowingly create a void in our relationships.

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In earlier times, when there were no mobile phones, only rare ones could afford it at that point of time. It was used to be the one phone for the entire house. People used to have sufficient time to spent with their near ones and used to share each other’s feelings and exchange happiness and sadness.

We all are somewhere ignoring that love and affection from our near ones and creating lack of communication by making this mere gadget so important. The most popular thing in this world is the love and care of our parents and these smartphones has created darkness in everybody’s heart. This mere gadget has overpowered the brightness of everybody’s heart and creates darkness and hollowness.

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Sometimes, when my mom calls me from kitchen to help her in cooking food but I used be so engrossed in working on my smartphone that I really ignored her call and after getting satisfied by checking out each and everything on phone, I realized that mom has called me for her help. Our ears and eyes may be actively participating in present but our mind only participates in checking out our phones. Those social media friends become so much important that we forget about our family and most specially our parents. Every teenage in today’s time going through this in their life without realizing that what they are losing ?

So, I hope that we all start looking at our relationships and start giving time to our parents and siblings more than we used to give to our smartphones. At the end, these special people in your life would support you only not your smartphones.
Stop making smartphones the most important thing rather start making human relations the most important thing.

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU ARE LACKING INSPIRATION TO WRITE

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Writing is a wonderful job. It is a fun incentive to earn money by putting your thoughts into words. What can be more beautiful than that? It is both a very personal experience, and a very public one,as it not only helps the writer to put their burdens down on a clear sheet of paper, but also to influence people into collective thinking and mass recognition. However, what happens if you are stuck in a particularly nasty phase where words evade you, and you are unable to conjure up a great idea for a very interesting piece of writing? What if your mind convinces you that this phase is here to stay?

You need not worry any longer, for I have come up with some tips and tricks to lure words back to you, so that they may follow your directions and help you write spectacular pieces of writings.

 

VISIT THE LIBRARY

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Children’s education. Girl reading book at library.

This one is pretty simple. You just need to visit your favorite library and let those sweet-smelling books to do the trick. Spending hours in a room (or rooms) full of books is a sure shot way to find something to write about. Moreover, it is probably your favourite haunt, so its really a fun activity for you.

OBSERVE AND INTERPRET

Instead of walking around the city with noise-canceling earphones, take your time to observe things. Eavesdrop on conversations in the metro or in cafes, join the political word war going during your bus ride, watch couples talk about their future and subsequently, dream about yours; or listen to the daily gossip on fashion, Bollywood and lifestyle. You will find that there is more to learn by the word of mouth than you could ever believe.

ALWAYS CARRY A BOOK

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Always carry a book or two, because it is never a bad idea to have good reading material, whether you are traveling, or sitting alone in your room. Read your favourite genres and analyse the stories in your own ways. Read both Fiction and Non- Fiction, so that you may be inspired by both the real world and the imagination realm.

VISIT UNUSUAL PLACES/ HAUNTS

Instead of sitting at home with a pen in your hand, searching for inspiration, get dressed and go for a solo tour of the city. Go to heritage sites that are not very popular among the public, or sit in the ruins of some ancient monument, knocked down by the passage of time, and learn its history. Such unusual haunts have a strange energy around them so that even if you are not able to derive enough inspiration from their history, you might feel a particular connection to these places, which will leave you thinking for days.

  • WATCH YOUR FAVOURITE MOVIES/ T.V SERIES

Whether you are watching a completely new t.v series, or rewatch your favorite movie, it is bound to help you find some writing material. The first experience with a movie makes you emotionally charged, which ultimately leaves you thinking about it. A sudden surge of emotions is always good for writing, as it leads to the free flow of ideas. Rewatching, on the other hand, helps you to critically analyse the story and the plot, without any emotions or bias. It helps you to identify issues and subjects which are otherwise hidden behind the main plot. Moreover, who doesn’t love to have a nice movie night with loads of popcorns and drinks?

So whenever you hit a snag, don’t panic. Just follow these steps and get your creative juices flowing. Also, remember to get off your couch!

“Give Peace a chance.”

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Looking around, trying to observe the present conditions of the world, the only topic that was sure to have struck me was “terrorism”. Maybe the photograph of the dead Syrian child, the millions of prayers for Paris or the condition of the billions of refugees were not enough to stop this cruel act. Maybe they needed lot more of it. Maybe they needed a lot more of bloodshed and a lot more of innocent lives.

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In between the 9/11 attacks at the Twin Towers and 14/7 attack at Nice, France, I grew up from being a child into a grownup adult. When I was a child, I had seen millions of Americans crying for what happened in their homeland. Now when I’m a grown up adult, I can see million others crying for what is happening around the globe. I did not know how to react then. But now, I do know. I can either cry like the others or I can stand up against it. I can raise up my voice to protest. I can make my voice reach to the millions of this country, billions of this world.

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I have been learning all the while that “an eye for an eye makes the world blind”. Looking at the situations around, I feel it would have been better to be blind. At least I wouldn’t have to see people being taken as hostages, people being ruthlessly attacked, beautiful monuments being destroyed and thousands crying like anything.

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Maybe thousands of years from now, when science and technology will reach its zenith, when scientists will prove the possibility of life in some other planet, when all the space organisations together will make a huge spaceship and carry all the people of the earth, except those terrorists, to the other planet, maybe then, they will stop. When they will have all of the earth only for themselves, maybe then, they will stop. When they will be tired of enjoying everything alone, maybe then, they will stop. When they will start feeling lonely and plead for the others to come back, maybe then, they will stop. Maybe then, they will give up all guns. Maybe then, they will give peace a chance. Maybe then, they will understand that the power of love always wins over love of power. Maybe then, all will come and live as one family.

 

“You may say I’m a dreamer,
But I’m not the only one.
I hope someday you’ll join us
And the world would be one.”

 

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Hello best friends

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10 years down the line, let me go with that thought what will I be doing? Well, sitting in my apartment with my two best friends laughing, giggling, remembering the days and years we passed together the happy ones, the sad ones, the mixed emotional ones, the mood swings ones, the breakup ones, fights, cry, argue and what not! It is said that if you have your school best friend still as your best friend then they are forever! IF you have one best friend then that’s true, but if you have two best friends then you are a lucky one.

I have my two schools best friends, we aren’t sisters by blood, but sisters by soul, it has already been 10 years more since we are best friends, in fact, sisters. Only two survivors of my life, who are trusted by my mother. Let me be in any mood, sad, depress or happier or let it be the biggest news, it’s always them who I have to tell to; my new friends or my old one. They are the only one who knows the true me after my family, my good habits, my bad ones my deepest secret.

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We hang out together, go for long drives and laugh till stomach aches not everyone gets our stupid jokes, and people might think that they’re immature and childish, but together we make them funny and get a good laugh out of it! We have that telepathy where we know that if we are fine or not, As days are passing and we are busy building our career we never forget to celebrate our days together, birthdays and family party best of all is they bear my voice crack when I sing a song though I love that because I love annoying them!

It’s never a day I got a chance to thank them, but just thank you is not enough because they have given more than I deserve.
Thank you again,
Best friends.

Review of ‘The Claim’ by Sanjay bordia

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Review of ‘The Claim’ by Sanjay Bordia.

 

Writer- Sanjay Bordia

Publisher- Frog books.

First published- 2015.

Genre- Investigation, mystery. 

‘The Claim’ as the title suggests is a claim to a sum of 10 crores from the Insurance company. the story begins with the panicky Sunil, who gets to know the death of Mr. Prabhat Mehra, son of kp mehra who had recently issued an insurance of ten crores. As per the rules of the insurance company, The 3M Chandani group sets out their able Auditor Mohan to look for any foul play before handing over the sum to the family of the deceased. All seems well and the stench of foul play is not evident in any case. All the evidences and proves support the story of KP Mehra and his family. all the puzzle pieces seems to be rightly placed. but something within Mohan’s heart does not lets him rest with what he has got to hear. He, Along with his team of two continues to investigate the mystery until they discover something gruesome.

Writing Style- The novel is written in a simple prose structure and the narrator is a third person who does not belong to the book.

Reviewer’s views- According to me, the story fails to hook the readers to it initially, and it has several digressions. the investigators rush to  food every now and then and on every opportunity gives a sense of usual things happening. the story is also made tedius going into great details about the meetings and formation of the team of investigating auditors, killing the actual suspense of the Claim.  But by the end, we know that Mohan can solve the mystery. and we are sure of the capability of his two other colleagues. The story peaks in the end and everything seems to be solved and the reader gets a climax. but just then the author drops another of his skills and the case is back to the same position as before. They solve it and narrate their findings before the company.

  • The novel has portrayed social issues by showcasing the condition of hospitals in rural areas. The reference to poor conditions of government hospitals and the ignorance of people triggers the readers’ mind into thinking whether or not such a terrible condition really exist. The story would be loved by those who like Sherlock holmes and are CID series.

Ratings- 3.5/5.

Travel benefits you with experience.

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Yes, you heard it right. Travel does benefit you with loads of experience. It might cost huge to your pockets. But at the end, you will be getting such experiences which would be larger than life.

Give it a thought Have you ever wondered why those cherishing memories soothe you and you feel so delighted while reviving those memories of your travel diaries?

Travel is an investment you make. The magic of travelling is that those moments will stay with you for your lifetime. Here are a few things that you learn while travelling.

  1. You’ll find a new purpose. As you travel the world, you will be exposed to new places and new cultures. You’ll discover something new which will urge you to discover the purpose of your own life.
  2. You start appreciating everything. You realize that there is beauty in everything. You get explored to new stuff. When you travel, your perspectives of viewing different things change. You learn to appreciate everything and appreciate the beauty of nature.
  3. You start liking experimentation. Travelling to different places allows you to experiment with yourself. Be it food, sports or clothes, you don’t like being the same. You like experimentation. You admire everything.
  4. You learn to value everything. Be it home, money or family members, you now know the importance of everything. You value home more than ever before. You value your family members. Because staying away from home makes you realize their importance. Travel fills you with loads of life experiences.
  5. You learn to make the best of what you can. You realize that luxurious items aren’t as important. You learn to stay happy from what you have and make sure that you perform the best as much as you can.
  6. You will experience different traits of life. You will learn making new friends. You would be able to differentiate between whom you can trust or no. You will learn the aspect of humanity. While travelling, you are exposed to different culture, you learn the connectivity of humanity between them.
  7. You learn to be independent. Whether you are travelling alone or in  a group, you realize how you as an individual person is responsible for taking charge of your own actions as well as your own safety. Indeed, you become much stronger as you were before.
  8.  More than anything, you learn Accepting things and managing your stuff. You start accepting things as it is. You learn to manage between your finances. You learn how to spend on different things.Indeed, Travelling is much more than just experience. Travelling gives you the inspiration. It builds you from inside. It helps you to recognize the hidden you. So whenever you go out, try to explore everything.
    Happy Travel Days.