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Farewell, my beloved bugger

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Blue-green eyes of a forlorn man,

distraught with grief and far beyond,

Aching tears welled in his eyes,

fell on his boots without a second thought,

brown and (slightly) speckled were they,

an alarming expression clouded his face,

death shrouded his beautiful and endearing creature

its lifeless form lay on his lap,

shredding his sanity bit by bit,

he came undone as he grasped it,

bent, broken, fallen was his posture,

and mind but still filled with his baby’s rants,

 

‘That mischievous and rebellious little thief’, he thought,

A little smile crept up on his quivering lips,

As he reminisced the good old days with his little buddy,

And shuddered the next second, violently,

He spat at fate, for being so cruel,

For taking away his beloved child,

His sweet furry beast, who did no one harm,

Who only sought to be a cute being,

Loved by his friends, as he did nothing but claim him,

To be his son,

Such was his bond with the creature,

Who died a painful death!

Mom’s here, mom’s here!’, He could coo over his baby,

Like a lost child in a crowd, the creature would pounce,

On its owner, its father, it’s everything,

It was his only solace amidst the world full of traitors,

Who want nothing more than to hurt him,

Use him and maim his innocent heart and soul,

 

It was time to bid farewell, to the little bugger,

Say the last prayer of hope,

Keep a sliver of faith glued to his heart,

He is moving onto a better place,

A peaceful and welcoming arena,

Only for an exquisite creature

like his baby, he thought with agitation,

He swallowed the pill of acceptance,

Dug a small grave for its tiny body,

Religiously rested it in the small space,

Shovelled it shut and said a silent goodbye.

 

 

Power of Internet: How to Find Anything On Internet

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15 websites that will boost your productivity

Internet, the network of networks is a wide spread web which connects us all. Internet affects not only the ones connected but also the ones not connected to the web. Each corner or space in the memory of Internet stores information. There it is; the entire anatomy of your family, the complete reference to distant location, a glimpse into the extinct past and the foreseen future. Research reveals that the average person now spends more time on their phones than on sleep. According to a study, an average person spends about 8 hours 41 minutes on electronics devices; this is about 20 minutes more than average night’s sleep. Internet has thus become a huge part of our world, and we cannot ignore its usefulness let alone its resourcefulness.

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For some people, Internet is all about Google. While others revolve around YouTube. Teenagers specifically prefer the company of social networking sites viz Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc. There must have been times when you sat for almost an hour in order to search for the most relevant information on the Internet. It could be something related to your school project, or something that links with your personal hobby. Google is a great platform to KNOW lot things in a blink of an eye, however not every person KNOWS how to utilize its full potential. As stated earlier, Internet is a much much larger topic to play with; we will therefore limit our discussion to the search optimization features and particularly focus more on how to find anything on the internet in a easier and reliable way than ever.

Use of Keywords:

Do you wish to search for a particular book or a specific location in the world? Are you confused as to how to get the access to any eBook file on the Internet? Do you want to know more about something through the power of Internet? What would you focus on? KEYWORDS, is what you are looking for.

Google is structured around Keywords. Every URL or Universal Resource Locator or preferable known as web address of a website is composed of keywords given to the Internet by the user (you). When you search for a specific keyword, Google need not worry about all the files on Internet but only the ones which contain the specified Keyword. Searching for the right Keyword will shorten your efforts drastically and improve your search efficiency.

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Avoid Use of Unnecessary Tags:

Say you wish to search for the song, “Human” by Christine Perry. Some people would simply search by the Singer name which is more accurate and efficient way. Others might search for the lyrics instead, not being able to recall the name of the singer. However, Google receives thousands of vague search queries such as, “Please search for me the song with lyrics blah blah blah”. This is particularly a gentler way of asking someone, however such vague logic would only make things complicated for the user.

Use of Inspect Element:

Have you ever used the developer options for accessing the Internet? If not, I suggest you to experiment with the Inspect Element tool provided within your browser. Simply Right-Click on the page (make sure no link is selected) and in the menu that appears, select Inspect Element. This gives you access to the front-end architecture of the current web page. Now, you may not know all about what front-end architecture is, or any programming language used to make the web content. However, even a rookie would gain enough confidence to play around with this tool, even if he does not belong to the computer major. You can get access to hidden links, images, and many other cool stuff inside the Inspect Element panel. Inspect Element has made it possible for novice programmers to learn coding and non-programmers to find anything on the Internet.

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Play with the URL:

If you closely watch the URL, you might notice some familiar symbols like the question mark (?) or the and symbol (&). These symbols enclose the value of different variable entries and keywords for the website. Feel free to play around with the URL. Add your keywords directly into the URL to see the web page respond to your commands.

Sometimes, the web page is not protected by a SSL certificate or is vulnerable, it might be a good idea to change the initials of the URL which normally start with “https:” and changing it to “http:”. Removing the ‘s’ ensures that the site does not check for any security filter. This way you can access a website, ultimately one more step towards finding anything on the Internet.

Use Open Libraries and Collections:

There are tens of open libraries available for students to view, upload, download, read online or buy packages in order to access some official books, journals, research papers or ancient scriptures. Visit one of such websites and enjoy the useful content offered by Internet.

To search for content online, is but one of the many applications of Internet. Google puts in a lot of efforts to ensure relevant content gets displayed to you, in the most effective and user friendly manner. The ability of the Internet to search and locate files and content across the world in seconds is phenomenal. However, the Internet is way more powerful than we know. The secrets of Internet will be revealed in the time, soon to come!

*More articles based on the Power of Internet coming soon.

Cartoons Only The Kids From 90’s Can Relate To

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Every generation has something that they feel the next one would regret missing out on..

Likewise the kids these days have no idea what all amazing cartoons series have they missed which the kids of 90’s of enjoyed thoroughly.

Below is a list of some such cartoons which we all loved :

  1. The Flintstones – A story about a man and his family and friends in the early stone age. The man’s pet is a dinosaur and he runs his car with his feet. They live in a house of stone and everything they have is so exquisite. All the 90s kids will know their “yaaba-daaba-doo .. “

Cartoons Only The Kids From 90's Can Relate To

2. Simba – The sweet tale of a cub, who is the prince of a territory. How he grows up, learning valuable lessons from his father, Mufasah and making friends,faces evil and learns how to fight them.

The best of all,it gives the amazing slogan of “hakuna matata” by a meerkat, Timon and a warthog, Pumbaa.

3. Dexter’s Laboratory – This is the story of a very young scientist who is merely in school. It is an amazing series with a hidden,underground laboratory where Dexter works and nobody knows about it and how his elder sister, DeeDee bugs him all the time by somehow making her way into the lab.

Cartoons Only The Kids From 90's Can Relate To

4. Noddy – This cartoon was all about a kid named Noddy who lived in Toyland. Noddy has a wobby head and his own car,his own aeroplane and everything. A very cute,funny way to teach young kids some valuable lessons of life.

5. Johnny Bravo – This was one of the funniest cartoons of those times. It was the story of a young man named Johnny Bravo and his lame attempts to try and get a girl. He always thought of himself to be the most handsome guy when in fact he was a blond guy with trapezium shaped hair,thinnest legs and weirdly large chest. It was a great show.

6. Scooby Doo – This particular cartoon is probably still on some of our favourites’ lists. This cartoon was one of the best of its time. It was a story of four friends Fred,Shaggy,Welma and Dapphine and their dog named Scooby. These people always somehow get into mysterious trouble and by using their detective skills and Scooby’s luck,they always made their way out.

There were many more cartoons like Bob the builder, Spongebob Squarepants,Captain Planet,Wild Cats and so so many more.

The nostalgia which we feel by merely mentioning these names is something that the generation after ours will never understand.

8 Natural ways to clear Acne

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Acne can be caused by hormonal and genetic problems. This problem is faced very much in the teens.

There are tons and tons of creams which help you to remove acne for a few weeks. But all of them do not pay good results. This is not surprising because the treatment should be made from inside the body as it is caused due to an internal factor. There are several reasons which cause frequent acne flare-ups. Here are some tricks that might help you to reduce the appearance of acne that can embarrass you much at social gatherings.

 

1: DRINKING WATER

 

 

 

One of the best ways to prevent acne is to increase your water intake. Water helps to detoxify the body and hence helps to reduce the toxins which are the cause of the acne. Increasing water intake can boost the blood circulation in our body and skin, thereby promoting a healthy skin. Make sure you drink 7-8 glasses of water per day.

2: CARROT POWER

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Carrots are known for their beta-carotene and fiber content. Therefore it should be present in your diet. It is especially referred to people who face acne problems in everyday life. Being rich in vitamin A carrots protects the outer surface skin giving a healthy glow. You must add them in your food preparation.

3: EXFOLIATE

 

Acne and pimples are caused by the dirt which is accumulated in the pores of the skin. Exfoliation is another thing you must add to your routine in order to maintain a healthy looking skin. By using a natural exfoliate you can promote your blood circulation and also remove dead cells in the body.

4: TUMERIC IT!

 

 

 

A staple Indian food product is turmeric which is known for its yellow color. It acts as a good antibacterial agent as well. The compound curcumin present in the turmeric reduces inflammation of tissues and acne. You can reduce the appearance of acne by adding more and more turmeric in your food preparations.

5: EXERCISE

 

 

Exercise not only helps you to keep fit and healthy and reduce obesity but also acts as a natural remedy for those who are facing stress-related acne. It is also known to improve the blood circulation in your body. This is why you need to put on your track pants and go out for jogging.

6: SUGAR ISSUES

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From conditions of obesity and high blood pressure, white sugar is an inseparable part of one’s diet which causes many health issues including acne. Sugar is known as the culprit of the appearance of acne flare-ups which interrupts with insulin which causes your hormones to go haywire and cause acne. Control your sugar intake.

7: GET THOSE 40 WINKS

 

 

 

Many researchers have found out that lack of sleep increases your stress level which in turn causes acne. The risk of psychological stress is thought to increase by a whopping 14% for every hour of sleep that you lose. Make sure you sleep 8 hours of beauty sleep every day.

8: GET THE SPF

Do not let the cloudy weather fool you. The UV rays can still manage to penetrate through the clouds and create havoc with your skin. The sun also tends to dry out your skin. It might cause inflammation and cause acne. So make sure you slather on the sunscreen every day before you get out of your house.

The Most Amazing Off-Beat Career Options

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Everyone wishes to have a bright future. A future which is safe and secure is considered as the best, this was the trend which has been followed for many years. That’s why career options like engineering, medical, chartered accountants, teacher or an official were considered to be the best choice.

But now with changing time and change of the mentality of the people, some nonconventional and not so secured job options have become very trendy amongst the youngsters of today.

Let’s have a quick look at the top ten not so conventional job options

IMAGE CONSULTANT

The Most Amazing Off-Beat Career Options

It is also known as wardrobe consultant, fashion stylist, makeover consultant. Their main job is to help in the makeover of the person so that they can enhance their personality and their looks. It is one of the most growing career options now a day which provide a handsome salary.

  • ETHICAL HACKING

The Most Amazing Off-Beat Career Options

Now a day various big companies are looking for ethical hackers for various security purposes. For this a good knowledge of coding and decoding various computer languages is just what you need.

  • SOMMELIER

SOMMELIERSommelier or wine steward or wine tasters are the persons who give advice for the selection of wine on the basis of the cuisines, tastes and budget. A good sommelier could earn anything in between five to ten lakh per tasting of wine.

  • PET GROOMING

pet groomingIt is an interesting career option for those who have fondness for animals. They usually train and take care of the pets.

  • CELEBRITY MANAGERS

The Most Amazing Off-Beat Career Options

Celebrity managers’ main job is to act as the representative of the celeb. They need to have good public relationship management skill and even good communication skill. Though at times this job could be tedious it’s full of glamour and meeting high profile persons.

CONTENT WRITER

The Most Amazing Off-Beat Career Options

If you have a passion and flair to write then you can get on with this career option. You need to write about various issues or products or do normal writing for this job. For this job you need to have a good command on the language, you are writing in.

PHOTOGRAPHER

The Most Amazing Off-Beat Career Options

If the speed of shutters of your camera matches your observation then go ahead with this job. This job is a great option for those who love photography. Trained and professional photographers are very much in demand now a day.

FITNESS TRAINER

The Most Amazing Off-Beat Career Options

If you are a fitness freak then this is the correct job option for you. Now a day increasing conscious of people towards their health has increased the demand of fitness trainers. Their main job is to help people remain in their correct figure and shape and give them correct health advice.

DESIGNERS

The Most Amazing Off-Beat Career Options

If you love designing and styling, then get ahead as a designer. If you are creative then this job profile matches your passion. By designers, we just don’t mean a fashion designer, but at present even interior designers, tattoo designers are also in demand. This job fetches you a lot of money if you are successful.

EVENT MANAGER

The Most Amazing Off-Beat Career Options

Event manager organizes events and looks after the arrangements of a function. It is quite a tedious and hard work but if you are good at it then this job can be a true bliss to your life.

So, at last, I would just suggest to you all that it’s not important that what you are doing is the mainstream job or an out of the way job but what is more important is that you give your hundred percent to it, and that, that the job is giving you a mental and an inner satisfaction. The mantra for a happy work life is to do that job or pursue that field which you feel is actually meant for you. Then no one can stop success coming your way.

All the very best for your future and hope that you pursue what you actually feel is good for you and give your best to it.

10 Signs You Are Vainer Than Your Girlfriend

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Everyone in this world believes that women loves to show off or they are more self obsessed than guys but you all are wrong my friends. Even Google accepts that guys are vainer than girls. in  case of couples it is mostly seen that boys are more self obsessed than girls. If you don’t believe so then these are some of the traits that would prove you wrong.

1.Focused on mirror than on girlfriend

10 Signs You Are Vainer Than Your GirlfriendWhen you are on a date, u might have gazed yourself more than your girlfriend. Rather than focusing on her u would have calculated the total number of windows and mirror in the restaurant and surely would have checked the clarity of the table glass.

2.Spend more bucks on sunscreen than your girlfriend10 Signs You Are Vainer Than Your Girlfriend

You are damn tensed about your skin. You refer sun as your sworn enemy. And you prefer more sunscreen lotion than your girlfriend and may be you spend almost half of your salary on it.

3.Love your muscles than your girl’s smile

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You are surely a gym freak. All boys are. But you love to maintain them and talk about them rather than observing your girlfriend’s beauty. You believe your physique is more sexy than your girl’s smile.

  1. Wont tolerate anyone’s comments on self

You love yourself. That’s good . but if someone or lets say your girlfriend ,comments on you or tell you to change some of your mistakes then you considered it as a great insult and suggest them not to poke their nose in it . you consider yourself as perfect.

5.You are a photoholic

You pose a lot for pictures than your girlfriend . sometimes you make them as your photographer too.

6.No uploads with your girlfriend

You are so fascinated about yourself that your facebook is flooded with your selfies  and you barely upload any pictures with your girlfriend. And  most of your selfies focused on your 6 pack abs. you are damn concerned about your status .

7.Borrow balm from your girlfriend10 Signs You Are Vainer Than Your Girlfriend

When you are hanging out with your girlfriend during winters  or visiting any dry places, then 1st thing you ask for is their lip balm. You are damn concerned that your lips are dry rather than what your girlfriend might think.

8.Like addiction

Facebook!!!!! You constantly check your facebook profile after you upload  a picture . You are more concerned about the number of likes and followers than the number of guys your girlfriend is hanging out with.

9.Expects daily compliments10 Signs You Are Vainer Than Your Girlfriend

Your personality means a lot to you. So you crave for more and more compliments from your girlfriend and friends. It works as the fuel to your dynamic personality .

10.Takes hours to get ready:10 Signs You Are Vainer Than Your Girlfriend

Sometimes you adopt women qualities like taking hours to get ready. May that be home, office or clubs, you take hours in the washroom to admire how you look. Completely self focused you are.

Top 5 Affordable Sports Cars

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Driving is a task for someone and a feel of passion for some others, and I, for one am from the latter group. Sports cars, especially, have a different feel and experience overall. Check out in this edition, our pick of the top 5 most affordable sports cars of all time.

1. The Jaguar F-Type

Top 5 Affordable Sports Cars

Price – $61,400 onwards

Its powerful, its agile and it’s here, but it’s a tab bit on the higher price range! But, it will make up for all its financial value. It takes most of its features from its predecessors, and it makes them proud too. It has an acceleration of 0-100 km/hr in 3.7 secs with top speed going up to 322 km/hr. Both coupe and convertible options are available for potential buyers. With excellent stability and a suitability to encompass every road and driver, it is here to impress.

2. 2016 Ford Mustang

Price – $24,400 onwards

This was one of the most awaited cars of 2016. The recent model is available with a 4 cylinder engine (Eco Boost), V6 and V8. The engines can be manually or automatically transmitted. The power varies from 306 HP up to 526 HP. It has a sleek body and it works just perfect for the roads of India. A voice-activated communication system with a push-button start and a hands free climate controller, a Ford Mustang always finds a way to take your breath away.

Top 5 Affordable Sports Cars3. Subaru BRZ

Top 5 Affordable Sports CarsPrice – $25,395 onwards

This is a very affordable sports car, one which is real rare to find these days. An updated 205-hp version of the 2.0-liter flat-four pairs to a six-speed manual and an Output which drops to 200 hp with the six-speed automatic. It goes upto 134 mph as its highest speed. The 2017 model is heavily revised, while still maintaining its aspired features.

4. Dodge Challenger

Top 5 Affordable Sports CarsPrice – $26,995

True to it’s name, this sports car has turned out to be a real challenger in the industry, giving other cars a true run. The latest model, has V6 or V8 and 8 gears automatic transmission. Although, there are three available V8 engines, all of them are similar, but they offer different amounts of power.  The least powerful version has 305 HP and the most powerful 707 HP. Its not small and sleek, we agree, but its monstrous size is what gives it a unique look. For 2015, Dodge redesigned all Challenger interiors. It’s now safe for mildly dangerous roads and even for a soft picnic spot.

5. Volkswagen GTI

Top 5 Affordable Sports CarsPrice – $24,995

This is one car with the most prestige and historic value today. The latest model offers 210 HP or 220 HP power and it comes with a 4 cylinder engine. It is a six-speed automatic, with an extra-cost option. GTI’s classic plaid seats come standard, as do agile handling and hatchback practicality. This one is an impressive hatchback with looks and workings of a small sports car. You can drive it every day, but when you are in the mood for a race, it can satisfy your need for that too.

Cars are somewhat a sentimental value. You care for it and it gives you the best performance. These models are safe, practical and very approachable. In addition to all its technological features, their looks are to kill for.

Choose your Career in 10 Simple Steps

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This article envisages providing ample food for thought in the pursuit of choosing your careers. A person’s success is simply a reflection of the career decision he once chose to embark upon. This naturally calls out for the development of certain traits and attributes cultivated within, the very same have been pondered herewith!

  • Career demands self exploration:

Know for sure that your career is not going to strike you as a bolt from the blue. The more you try yourself in different arenas, the more you discover yourself, the closer you get. So delve within and ask yourself as to what really garners your interest?   

  • Become a bit thick skinned.

You know yourself better than any other person on the face of this whole planet and whenever you try to tell the people around as to how you are passionate about a relatively remote (read offbeat) career, they may demoralize you. In such a scenario you should be able to grow enough of that thicker skin (Of course, do listen to the advises of your stake-holders, parents and peers; but not every other fellow you bump across!).

Choose your Career in 10 Simple Steps

  • Do you know it all?

Coming from an engineering background when I ask my fellow batch mates and juniors as to why they ended up taking Computer Science, keeping some passionate exceptions apart, they almost unambiguously name money as the reason. They didn’t have an idea about the branch they were majoring in!  Do you think they will be able to make nice money? Do you too intend to choose your career on a similar line as this?

  • It won’t be a bed of roses

Know that your career can and will have its one share of setbacks and the life won’t be a cakewalk. Ask yourself “Am I still all for it?” If the answer is still a persistent Yes, You sir, are then all for it!

  • Do not hesitate to take calculated risks.

History is loaded with the examples of people who were considered as lunatics when they have come up with their ideas. Only now do we know about their real worth. Could that happen had they shied away from taking risks?

But then there were many of those who took risks and were left nowhere too. That’s why the word calculated!

  • Don’t lose hope on set backs

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People tend to be feverish about the result of their efforts, however, it is imperative that feverishness for success makes us weak and a weak person, can never win. Know that there is no point in coming back after travelling halfway; after all you will anyway travel the other half to return back!

  • Always have a plan B ready!

It’s always better to have multiple plans, this helps a lot in not losing hope during the cases of failure!

On one hand it removes the extra burden from ones head resulting from the fear of dejection at the same time it increases our chances of success.

  • Passion and all..?

Say your passion is for watching movies and I give you four long movies to watch daily. How long do you think your passion will last? Even if your passion is in tandem with your career, necessity is for a higher goal from your career each time you succeed, after all Success is a journey not the destination!

  • Always be in the part of a like-minded group

This really catalyzes your progress! Especially for the competitive examinations. There goes a saying that “Do not be in the company of misers, they will bring you down to their level and will beat you then with their experience!

  • One for the kitchen one for the soul.

Say you wish to be a stand–up comic, or a scriptwriter or things alike. It’s quiet imperative that your career choice doesn’t match with the typical mainstream ones. You may really be quiet motivated to conceive that as the sole purpose of your life, but then how to convince your stakeholders? “One for the kitchen and One for the Soul” simply means that for the sake of satisfaction may perceive your dreams but in order to keep the fire in your kitchen burning or to make the ends meet, have an alternative and conventional source of income and then whenever you feel firmly established in the first career, switch graciously!

Letter to my Best Friend

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friend

Although you know these things which I am going to write but I haven’t told them to you in person, so here I am writing this for you.

You are the most important person in my life. The part of my life which is inseparable and this is tried and tested, many have tried to apart us but we are still the same and that made our bond even stronger, thanks to those people though.

You are the one who knows me more than I know myself. After listening to just a hello you get to know about my mood, well hats off for that. The times when I am so irritated and not even wish to move out of the bed and just yell at people, you are the one who says babe chill its just PMS, you’ll be fine. Then I am like yeah girl you are right and we both laugh together on this.

Thank you for showing that trust on me that I can give kick ass performance in the exams when I am not even prepared and freaks out by announcing to everyone that I’ll fail. “Bhai bahot easy hai, I know and I trust you tu aram se kar legi”, when you say these words, I get the motivation to do it for you and for this support I can’t thank you enough.

You are the one with whom I can be open and honest. With you I can be myself and accept me the way I am and love me for who I am. When I am with you I can be as ugly as I could and I know you’ll still love me. And yup thank you for having faith on me and my driving at that time when you knew I am a bad driver :p

Thank you for going on dates with me, and for this I can proudly say I don’t need a man for going out on date when I have you. From our shopping dates to food dates, though coffee date is still due, you were always there for me. And ya I can never forget that jalebi date.

You are the first person who comes to my mind when I wish to share something be it love, lafde or any other freaking problem of my life, you know the complete stories from the very beginning to the end.

Thank you for always providing me with your shoulder whenever I want to cry, though you make me laugh after that.

Thank you for always telling me the truth, the truth which I sometimes don’t want to listen but never stop telling me the truth because I want to hear it.

You know I am moody and very hard to live with n sometimes I doubt, how can you be so in love with me that you listens it all and still don’t give up on me and that’s because you are family now and I can lean on you, count on you and always expect you to be there with me, always.

I can’t thank you much for being my alarm as well and for having those weird conversations and thinking if anyone heard us, we’d be put into a mental hospital.

Thank you for giving me millions of memories and stories to tell to my children and grandchildren as well as yours, thousands of jokes, hundred shared secrets and one reason…. Best friend.

 

You are the one who has helped me with my heart aches and given me advice.

 All my stupidities you understand and realise.

From our first intro to our heavy lehengas, a bride and bridesmaid.

You are my best friend and my soul mate.

First Love Never Dies !

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Though it was years ago, the memory still remains fresh. The First time you felt something really different, something really special; the first time your heart skipped a beat, the first time every cell of your body blushed or the time, the unexplainable urge your body felt when you saw that special someone and the first time your delirium carried you to an entirely different world that you never knew existed. After all these years, you feel you have moved past it, when on one lazy afternoon when you sit back trying to relax; or lie on your bed listening to your favourite song from the past ; or when you least expect; it bounces back and flashes across your mind vividly like it was just yesterday when you fell in love for the first time.That’s when you realize that their presence have been lingering on somewhere in your’s mind all this while

After all these years, you feel you have moved past it, when on one lazy afternoon when you sit back trying to relax; or lie on your bed listening to your favourite song from the past ; or when you least expect; it bounces back and flashes across your mind vividly like it was just yesterday when you fell in love for the first time.That’s when you realize that their presence have been lingering on somewhere in your’s mind all this while.

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Only a few are lucky to have a successful first love.But in most of the cases, it is buried. Buried alive under the pressure of time, society and relations. They remain alive in some corner of our heart with their presence lingering on in our mind all the time. Unlike all the relationships that came after, with this one, the past can’t seem to stay in the past. They tend to have some power some control over us forever.
The major reason why we never get over the first love is due to its intensity. We just happened to fall in love the first time, the excitement, the madness has no bounds. We are not aware of the things happening to us or the things that we actually are doing. Everything unfolds slowly and spontaneously; every next step is a surprise. First love always is innocent, carefree, selfless, silly, wild, unrealistic; and it also is a treasure of all the firsts of your life.
When the first love is lost a part of you is lost forever. A permanent void is created in your heart which in your later life forces you to think about what if the things hadn’t ended, what if we could have stayed together forever; each time the mind thinks of all this the heart sinks.
Later a longing to feel the same develops and we start  “searching” for love. Thus the essence of falling in love is lost, and even after finding one we always tend to compare it with the first one. There are expectations, the spontaneity is lost. We start weighing and judging peoples, emotion, and relation. The first love has changed you forever.
No matter what you tell yourself, what you try to make of it, it will always be ‘the first love’. You always thought it would work out, but it didn’t. You always thought they were the one and you’ll probably never get over the fact that it still didn’t worked out. It’ll always haunt you. You’d eventually move on with life, but seeing them with someone else will never feel right. The ‘what if’ will always haunt.
So let that first love occupy that special corner in the bottom of your heart and   play the magic trick of making you blush on hearing its name or while you cherish the memory even in your old age.