Are you thinking about your bond with your mother? Is it a pure mother-daughter relationship? If a girl thinks about this, let me tell you that being a mother or a parent is not fulfilling your responsibility. Each girl wants that twinning bond with her mother. What she wants from her mother, won’t be told by her nor heard. For every daughter, her mom is very special. Further, there are many reasons which make a mother special for her daughter. A girl expects a lot from her first teacher #herMother. However, it is the responsibility of a mother to do “positive parenting“. She wants that woman near to her during her difficult times, happiness, sadness means every time. A girl always seeks her understanding, love, care, attention, and most importantly she needs her presence even most when she is not going good emotionally.
Having a daughter is always a blissful feeling. Those parents are blessed by God who received the gift of a baby girl in their life. It is said by ancestors that girls are born in those houses where people can nourish them. But nowadays all these things are seeing to be going far apart from the life of people. Today women are too busy with their chores and responsibility that they forget to raise their children. Thus, they are not having any idea how their child is going back and feeling lonely. At an early age, a girl is feeling depressed and lonely due to a lack of her mother’s love and attention which is a sign of a bad role model.
Beginning of Mother And Daughter Relation
Anyhow daughter wants her mother to be her role model in her life. So, give her a reason to think of you as a role model, not a devil model. Further, every girl wants her mothers to teach while crossing the bridge of teenage to become a woman. And to obsolete the problems in the mother-daughter bond we are here with some little things which a girl expects from her mother.
She Wants You To #Believe In Her
Do you believe in your child? Could you feel what she feel at times? Can you feel her happiness, sorrows, sadness? If yes then you are on the track of positive parenting. Hence it is not easy to be a parent moreover it is over difficult to do parenting. Any perfect relation on earth is based on love, loyalty, and trust. So, as the bond of mother and daughter. A mother is always a role model for her daughter but it is up to her how she will maintain this part.
The building of the bond starts when a girl is in childhood. That is the only and only time when she can connect to her mother. It is the responsibility as well as the duty of a mother to make her child that she can defeat the world. If you will not believe in her then she will feel helpless and won’t believe in herself. Thus, the early you believe in her, the sooner she will believe in herself and built her confidence.
Validate Her #Worthiness
Life is always about giving lessons. A girl when she is growing goes through various situations i.e. fight with a friend, or not having friends, scolded by a teacher etc. At that time she seeks worthiness not based on her regular performance, appearance, success or communication but on the ground of her regular behaviour and personality. Moreover, she always wants to be loved from within. Therefore there is a conclusive fact which defines that inner beauty is more important than the outer one which is “Beauty Lies In The Eyes Of The Beholder”.
Eventually, tell her that you are proud of her in every situation at every stage of life. With the intention that she would never found herself alone, useless or “unworthy”.
Spend Time #Quality Time
Time is always limited and it is up to us how we have to utilize it. Time is so valuable that once it flies away then it never come back. And it just flew away in a click. Thus, A mother should always take out some time for her family and children. Further not as a burden but from within to know her daughter better and to spend quality time with her. Moreover, it is true we can’t be perfect every time but can Try to become a package of perfect role model of her life. Being a mother listens to her and share with her your experience and way of living.
Now, you might be thinking what else could be done to become a role model? Consequently, to this, spend your time cooking, laundry, cleaning, etc. Further, all these little things collectively take a mother on track of positive parenting.
Give Space #To Make Mistakes
This is the most difficult thing for a mother to give her daughter. This is the most challenging space a mother has to give to her daughter. It will be difficult for any mother to watch her baby girl walking through the vicious roads even though when she is knowing the consequences. But the real psychological thing is we are not able to control her life neither a parent should do this. Because this will vanish her personal space and she will feel like no one understands her.
However, the thing is your daughter need your support even when she is wrong. If you are showing her heaven and she wants to make walk through hell, let her do, but when she finds you are correct, she will definitely learn. Thus, for positive parenting a mother wants her daughter to know how to make good choices. Furthermore, this won’t be possible before messing up. After all NO MISTAKES- NO LEARNINGS, NO EXPERIENCE.
Say Truth #Have Truth
Eventually at the end of the day what happens no matter but a mother always wants her daughter to speak the truth. Then why can’t a daughter expect the same? There might be no answer, but she needs to know the little things you hide to make yourself correct. Furthermore, the Truth means to support her that will build the mother and daughter bond. But when it comes to positive parenting mother should give her those +ve vibes. Whenever she feels destructive with -ve thoughts. Tell her some positive truthful things about herself. If you will share, she will be able to open up with her true and young secrets.
On a Conclusive Note, a perfect way to have growth in the mother and daughter bond is to have communication. Or spend more time with each other, don’t forget her when you are doing chores or any office work. Just ask her to help you not to make her know the chores but the one to spend some quality time. As it is said, “The longest journey starts with a single step” in the same way all these baby steps towards positive parenting will make your #mother-daughter Bond stronger.
This is for all the wonderful and pretty mothers a gift for you on mothers day to make your bond more strong as a mountain, more flexible as water, calmer as air, more evergreen as trees. So, what are you waiting for? Hurry up because it is never too late to start.