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Learn To Say No

 

There are some basic things in life that no individual or a book can teach you, only the life can. The one I am pretty sure about is to, stand up for yourself; don’t take bullshit from anyone else. You have one life, live it to the fullest, because no one else can be more important than you are, so BE SELFISH.

Being selfish to me means that you have to look out and do things that please you not others. It’s not selfish to love yourself, take care of yourself and to make your contentment prior to anyone else. IT’S ELEMENTARY.

“Life lived for others are worthy” is true in every sense, but I think that the person who wrote this definitely didn’t knew the scrumpy people in today’s world. Rapacious people are only nice when it’s commodious for them, for when they yearn something from you.

Respect yourself enough to walk away from anyone or anything that no longer succor you, or make you ecstatic. There are people who would give anything to see you fall, never give them the indemnification, hold your head up high, and stand your ground, and just say ‘NO’ to their bullshit and be gallant enough to stride away. Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be the option.

If people are trying to bring you down, it means that you are above them. No one can treat you like shit and love you at the same time. Whether we like it or not we will come across certain people who like nothing better than to downside their competition not in the direct way like most, but by being disguised as friends. It’s really imperative to comprehend among such persons.

Genuinely nice people will go out of their ways to help others, and a simple thank you in return will suffice the troubles they went through while helping you. Help the poor and the needy, someone who needs you more than anything, and respect you for help rather than taking it for granted.

If you have to be successful, you have to be selfish or else you never achieve…And once you get to the highest level then you have to be unselfish…Stay reachable…Stay in touch…and most of all don’t ISOLATE yourself. Self love, self respect, and self worth, there is a reason why they all start with self. You cannot find them in anyone else.

And guy’s remember – “Putting yourself first is not selfish; thinking about yourself constantly is selfish.”

 

Dr. Aaina Aggarwal
Life is memories, you die one day and people remember you for all the things you have done which is summed up by some words. Be defined by the words that you love- from a future doctor aka dentist, writer, wanderer, adventurous, party hopper, and most of all a nerd.

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